Screening of Women to avoid Bad Relationships
I’ve read a fair few posts on here about guys who are in exclusive relationships in their early 20’s (even gasp! they are living with a girl), they are unhappy, and the woman is withholding s!x as a bargaining chip. And this is when they should be enjoying the best days of freedom of their lives.
For any high value man who does not want to get stuck with a low quality woman who doesn’t meet his criteria, it is important to screen early, and know what you are willing to accept.
This is especially important when you are meeting a woman through avenues other than your social circle, such as online dating or bar pick up.
Screening of women by a man is best done in 3 stages:
1) To define whether she is the sort of girl you would be willing to have s!x with as a one night stand (and not regret it).
2) To define whether she is suitable to add your rotation of 2 – 4 girls who you are banging on a regular basis.
3) To define whether she is the sort of girl you be willing to have an exclusive relationship with.
As examples (although it will vary from person to person):
For stage 1 screening, it can be pretty broad, for example consisting of the following:
- She is not fat
- She does have an attractive body and face
- She doesn’t smoke (unless she is smokin’ hehe)
- She has no noticeable signs of STD’s
- She does not have a prudish attitude towards s!x
Stage 2 screening is a bit more specific. It includes all of stage 1 plus for example the following:
- She does not make demands to be exclusive; instead she enjoys her time with you.
- She is not a single mom.
- She does not have hang ups about an ex.
- She enjoys s!x, preferably every time you are together.
- You have good s!xual chemistry together.
- She is good to spend time with, not overly annoying.
Stage 3 screening must be very specific. This is a girl you would agree to become exclusive with, losing all of your other options for s!xual variety.
It will vary depending on your life goals, includes all of the above, and here are some examples of additional criteria:
- Have (or will have) a career level similar to yours
- Similar interests
- Similar life goals
- Etc etc
Conclusion
So guys, do not settle for a low quality woman who does not meet your screening criteria, just because you banged her.
Do not elevate a girl higher up your priorities than she earns through her status, looks or actions.
Enjoy random encounters, but remember that having s!x with a girl does not in any way obligate you to be in any sort of relationship (exclusive or otherwise) with her.
And if despite the above advice, you somehow find yourself in a relationship with a girl who does not meet your criteria and you are unhappy, remember one thing:
Dump, move on and never look back!
I’ve read a fair few posts on here about guys who are in exclusive relationships in their early 20’s (even gasp! they are living with a girl), they are unhappy, and the woman is withholding s!x as a bargaining chip. And this is when they should be enjoying the best days of freedom of their lives.
For any high value man who does not want to get stuck with a low quality woman who doesn’t meet his criteria, it is important to screen early, and know what you are willing to accept.
This is especially important when you are meeting a woman through avenues other than your social circle, such as online dating or bar pick up.
Screening of women by a man is best done in 3 stages:
1) To define whether she is the sort of girl you would be willing to have s!x with as a one night stand (and not regret it).
2) To define whether she is suitable to add your rotation of 2 – 4 girls who you are banging on a regular basis.
3) To define whether she is the sort of girl you be willing to have an exclusive relationship with.
As examples (although it will vary from person to person):
For stage 1 screening, it can be pretty broad, for example consisting of the following:
- She is not fat
- She does have an attractive body and face
- She doesn’t smoke (unless she is smokin’ hehe)
- She has no noticeable signs of STD’s
- She does not have a prudish attitude towards s!x
Stage 2 screening is a bit more specific. It includes all of stage 1 plus for example the following:
- She does not make demands to be exclusive; instead she enjoys her time with you.
- She is not a single mom.
- She does not have hang ups about an ex.
- She enjoys s!x, preferably every time you are together.
- You have good s!xual chemistry together.
- She is good to spend time with, not overly annoying.
Stage 3 screening must be very specific. This is a girl you would agree to become exclusive with, losing all of your other options for s!xual variety.
It will vary depending on your life goals, includes all of the above, and here are some examples of additional criteria:
- Have (or will have) a career level similar to yours
- Similar interests
- Similar life goals
- Etc etc
Conclusion
So guys, do not settle for a low quality woman who does not meet your screening criteria, just because you banged her.
Do not elevate a girl higher up your priorities than she earns through her status, looks or actions.
Enjoy random encounters, but remember that having s!x with a girl does not in any way obligate you to be in any sort of relationship (exclusive or otherwise) with her.
And if despite the above advice, you somehow find yourself in a relationship with a girl who does not meet your criteria and you are unhappy, remember one thing:
Dump, move on and never look back!
