Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
My Name is Nobody said:I'm just curious about this how many of you guys have had a screamer in the sack? I mean when you stick it in and she starts screaming like she is in a Friday the 13th movie, and Jason Voorhies is standing in the doorway with a machetti.
Is the screaming natural or are they faking it?
lookyoung said:Faking it.
PlayToWin said:Because they have either seen it in a porn or society makes them think that its natural to enjoy it so much to the point of screaming that she thinks she it is unnatural to not scream that much. Plus it could just be an AW thing too.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
n00bPimp said:All the screamers i had fall into one of 2 categories:
1. slut
2. drunk
I've had one screamer while my friends where home once. It felt kinda akward
Stripes said:OH i shoulda responded to the original question.. Yes I have had screamers and yes I have one right now... If it wasn't for all the concluding and commiting people in the world making ass so easy for me to attain. I wouldn't stop challenging your ideas, right now
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Stripes said:Possibly, Something tells me most hardly achieve orgasms and if I were in a situation where having sex meant I might not ***, i'd start screaming too when they were going the right direction with things
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
My Name is Nobody said:I'm just curious about this. How many of you guys have had a screamer in the sack? I mean when you stick it in and she starts screaming like she is in a Friday the 13th movie, and Jason Voorhies is standing in the doorway with a machetti.
Is the screaming natural or are they faking it?
Prodigy746 said:how big is you ****, i haer big ****s make girls scream.....
JK
:crackup: I would have loved to see their faces.n00bPimp said:All the screamers i had fall into one of 2 categories:
1. slut
2. drunk
I once had one screamer while my friend was in the other room. It felt kinda akward because he had his parents over.
n00bPimp said:All the screamers i had fall into one of 2 categories:
1. slut
2. drunk
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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.