Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
My Name is Nobody said:I'm just curious about this how many of you guys have had a screamer in the sack? I mean when you stick it in and she starts screaming like she is in a Friday the 13th movie, and Jason Voorhies is standing in the doorway with a machetti.
Is the screaming natural or are they faking it?
lookyoung said:Faking it.
PlayToWin said:Because they have either seen it in a porn or society makes them think that its natural to enjoy it so much to the point of screaming that she thinks she it is unnatural to not scream that much. Plus it could just be an AW thing too.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
n00bPimp said:All the screamers i had fall into one of 2 categories:
1. slut
2. drunk
I've had one screamer while my friends where home once. It felt kinda akward
Stripes said:OH i shoulda responded to the original question.. Yes I have had screamers and yes I have one right now... If it wasn't for all the concluding and commiting people in the world making ass so easy for me to attain. I wouldn't stop challenging your ideas, right now
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Stripes said:Possibly, Something tells me most hardly achieve orgasms and if I were in a situation where having sex meant I might not ***, i'd start screaming too when they were going the right direction with things
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
My Name is Nobody said:I'm just curious about this. How many of you guys have had a screamer in the sack? I mean when you stick it in and she starts screaming like she is in a Friday the 13th movie, and Jason Voorhies is standing in the doorway with a machetti.
Is the screaming natural or are they faking it?
Prodigy746 said:how big is you ****, i haer big ****s make girls scream.....
JK
:crackup: I would have loved to see their faces.n00bPimp said:All the screamers i had fall into one of 2 categories:
1. slut
2. drunk
I once had one screamer while my friend was in the other room. It felt kinda akward because he had his parents over.
n00bPimp said:All the screamers i had fall into one of 2 categories:
1. slut
2. drunk
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.