"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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scrawny guys and hot chicks?? WTF

jacob

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this should make you even more hopeful.

My strongest trait when I was younger was my pretty boy jock looks, but I had no understanding of the game, I was so AFC and put all my hope in my looks to pick up chics. lol

Sure they would admire me from afar and talk about me, but they would tell my ugly @ss gangsta friends your friend is to "slow" and would horseplay with them( the ugly rugged homies) and my friends would end up gang banging the babes, while I would watch in disgust while my friends would say "what's wrong handsome" and laugh.

Through the years I've observed how my friends would kino, joke around, behave around girls and then it would click and I would imitate what they did, but added my own style to it.

I finally got my first long term at 17 years old, the mother of my kids, and she had a younger brother that was burned on 2/3rd of his body, but he too was into gangs and was well respected with his boys. He was getting all these fine @ss high school girls bringing them home and boning them even with his burned skin and this is from his neck down, even his fingers were like webbed fingers, that's how bad it was, but all his girlfriends were HB 8-10s.

And it was no surprise, he acted like a confident male, joked around with his girlfriends by dominating them and play wrestling them, he could fight and that's why he was respected, and he wouldn't take bullsh!t from the girls.

Anyway being with the mother of my kids I started turning back to AFC but he made me realize again that looks were of no importance as the way you come of masculine in your behavior to women that attracts them.

So now I don't even bother with that metro sexual bull or focus to much on my looks even though it does make it easier, to women it's more about game. Period.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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K2000kidd said:
and worse he doesn't even have to try to game them they flock to him without him lifting a finger.
Yeah, this is interesting. I'm assuming these hotties already know he's wanted by the other hotties, which sparks their interest in him. As I'm sure you know, when hot women see you're wanted by other hot women, their interest in you skyrockets. So, if that's what's happening with him, then that's the reason he doesn't have to game them. He's already "proved" himself to them.

Is what I'm assuming, the case? Or have you actually seen him gauge the interest of these women, without having to game them, who had no prior knowledge of these other chix who "want" him?
 
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