this should make you even more hopeful.
My strongest trait when I was younger was my pretty boy jock looks, but I had no understanding of the game, I was so AFC and put all my hope in my looks to pick up chics. lol
Sure they would admire me from afar and talk about me, but they would tell my ugly @ss gangsta friends your friend is to "slow" and would horseplay with them( the ugly rugged homies) and my friends would end up gang banging the babes, while I would watch in disgust while my friends would say "what's wrong handsome" and laugh.
Through the years I've observed how my friends would kino, joke around, behave around girls and then it would click and I would imitate what they did, but added my own style to it.
I finally got my first long term at 17 years old, the mother of my kids, and she had a younger brother that was burned on 2/3rd of his body, but he too was into gangs and was well respected with his boys. He was getting all these fine @ss high school girls bringing them home and boning them even with his burned skin and this is from his neck down, even his fingers were like webbed fingers, that's how bad it was, but all his girlfriends were HB 8-10s.
And it was no surprise, he acted like a confident male, joked around with his girlfriends by dominating them and play wrestling them, he could fight and that's why he was respected, and he wouldn't take bullsh!t from the girls.
Anyway being with the mother of my kids I started turning back to AFC but he made me realize again that looks were of no importance as the way you come of masculine in your behavior to women that attracts them.
So now I don't even bother with that metro sexual bull or focus to much on my looks even though it does make it easier, to women it's more about game. Period.
My strongest trait when I was younger was my pretty boy jock looks, but I had no understanding of the game, I was so AFC and put all my hope in my looks to pick up chics. lol
Sure they would admire me from afar and talk about me, but they would tell my ugly @ss gangsta friends your friend is to "slow" and would horseplay with them( the ugly rugged homies) and my friends would end up gang banging the babes, while I would watch in disgust while my friends would say "what's wrong handsome" and laugh.
Through the years I've observed how my friends would kino, joke around, behave around girls and then it would click and I would imitate what they did, but added my own style to it.
I finally got my first long term at 17 years old, the mother of my kids, and she had a younger brother that was burned on 2/3rd of his body, but he too was into gangs and was well respected with his boys. He was getting all these fine @ss high school girls bringing them home and boning them even with his burned skin and this is from his neck down, even his fingers were like webbed fingers, that's how bad it was, but all his girlfriends were HB 8-10s.
And it was no surprise, he acted like a confident male, joked around with his girlfriends by dominating them and play wrestling them, he could fight and that's why he was respected, and he wouldn't take bullsh!t from the girls.
Anyway being with the mother of my kids I started turning back to AFC but he made me realize again that looks were of no importance as the way you come of masculine in your behavior to women that attracts them.
So now I don't even bother with that metro sexual bull or focus to much on my looks even though it does make it easier, to women it's more about game. Period.