Sciences says men who "chase" women are losers

[Poon King]

Meh, that's a popular saying, but I don't think it's necessarily true. If two people meet each other, form an obvious connection, and both want the same thing (which happens), I don't see that as a sign of weakness.

There is a large different between having high interest in a woman and making it known.. compared to being desperate and making that known.

I sometimes meet women that turn me on more than usual so I end up escalating much faster than normal with them. However, if the woman acts like a b!tch my interest level drops immediately. Then she becomes just another disposable sex toy.

Your job as a man is to lead. The woman's job is to follow. Women who don't follow have low interest. The proper response to a woman with low interest is forgetting she exists. Desperate betas see low interest as a signal to try harder. This is what makes them pathetic faggots.

 

[thatfeel]

If you have low interest in a woman how do you get yourself to even bother escalating with them? I can't stand to be around people that annoy me.

 

[MrWood]

Also.. remember that on SoSuave we are only talking about attractive women. Generally HB7 and higher. If you're dating women below that you don't need SoSuave.

thank you Sir

 

[Silko]

in my last 3 relationships the woman hunted me. and I take more or less always a month before accepting the relationship

But all of them dumped me too.
I'm making mistakes ...
I think at a certain point I become suddenly unsexy, I become lazy (dunno)
Still figuring out what I need to do better

I yes, I need to add this:
- on the first I got a heavy crush .. so she played with me
- the second ... actually I turned her first down, cause playing too, got a crush, and then she turn me down
- the last one ... actually I never felt heavily attracted ... but felt secure ... she turned me down