"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Science discovers confidence has a physical sense.

Oxide

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Reuters:

"In a groundbreaking study on 1200 subjects, confidence had been linked to definite physical features that become more evident as the level of confidence increases. Birmingham research showed that people who were within two standard deviations on the confidence scale exhibited a definite sense of "confidence glow". One subject described it as "the confidence force field" that allowed anyone within to feel relaxed and self assured.

Dr. Haywood Jablowme stated that while more research would be needed, he believes neuro science would bring more light to the subject. He remains optimistic by saying "No longer will confident people feel like they are just kidding themselves by feeling good. Now they have actual real things to fall back on"
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'm in the Mood

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Haha this cracked me up!
 

Just a Shot Away

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Really needed ya on an 8 page looks thread that was mercifully deleted a few weeks back. Good stuff, though.
 

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uh oh, the folks in camp "looks matter" probably won't get much sleep!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dr. Mike Oxbig came up with the 'confidence glow' theorem way back in the 80's!
 

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um.... how is a "confidence glow" or "the confidence force field" a definite physical feature, or an actual real thing??? mumbo jumbo :D
 
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