"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Science discovers confidence has a physical sense.

Oxide

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Reuters:

"In a groundbreaking study on 1200 subjects, confidence had been linked to definite physical features that become more evident as the level of confidence increases. Birmingham research showed that people who were within two standard deviations on the confidence scale exhibited a definite sense of "confidence glow". One subject described it as "the confidence force field" that allowed anyone within to feel relaxed and self assured.

Dr. Haywood Jablowme stated that while more research would be needed, he believes neuro science would bring more light to the subject. He remains optimistic by saying "No longer will confident people feel like they are just kidding themselves by feeling good. Now they have actual real things to fall back on"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm in the Mood

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Haha this cracked me up!
 

Just a Shot Away

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Really needed ya on an 8 page looks thread that was mercifully deleted a few weeks back. Good stuff, though.
 

synergy1

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uh oh, the folks in camp "looks matter" probably won't get much sleep!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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WhitePimp

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Dr. Mike Oxbig came up with the 'confidence glow' theorem way back in the 80's!
 

kyokon

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um.... how is a "confidence glow" or "the confidence force field" a definite physical feature, or an actual real thing??? mumbo jumbo :D
 
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