mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
I've had good recent memories. They just aren't as abundant. Those old memories were my normal for all those years.there we go; that paints a nice memory that I can imagine your happiness.
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I've had good recent memories. They just aren't as abundant. Those old memories were my normal for all those years.there we go; that paints a nice memory that I can imagine your happiness.
Wtg!
Royal experience. Royal treatment.I've had good recent memories. They just aren't as abundant. Those old memories were my normal for all those years.
It's not "royal" at all. That's how you should be treated. Anything less is not worth it and disrespectful to yourself.Royal experience. Royal treatment.
I had that too, my word.
It's not royally, that's how your MAN should treat you.I asked my 29 year oneitis to come out to me here in the last few years.
A quick 'no'.
How many times am I going to 'leave the porch light' on for him?
What is it costing me in terms of my dignity?
He treated me royally, encouraged me to read the feminist column of Z magazine,
That must've felt great. You can find it in another who see's you in the correct light. Having walls up prevents it from ever happening again, also being "too careful". The last time it happened, it just happened without you trying or forcing it, right?the only man I introduced to every family member, only one I ever went on vacation with.
The only one who was able to powerfully shut down the man before him(whom I had lost the V to)
He debated and argued and dominated every counter verbal attack with the ex at the time in the kitchen of some party.
Eventually the first one submitted and wished him happiness with me.
He was so smug and selfsatisfied he 'defended my honour'.
I've never met anyone since with such poetic, piercing intelligence.
it was in school.It's not "royal" at all. That's how you should be treated. Anything less is not worth it and disrespectful to yourself.
It's not royally, that's how your MAN should treat you.
That must've felt great. You can find it in another who see's you in the correct light. Having walls up prevents it from ever happening again, also being "too careful". The last time it happened, it just happened without you trying or forcing it, right?
You don't think females won't be more critical of you and more competitive with you than males who might want to flirt with you and be attracted?it was in school.
I had just transferred from an all girls catholic h.s. to my Dad's old coed public school.
I did an hour long presentation on Andy Warhol and The Velvet Underground, dressed as Warhol with a wig and his way of speech and mannerisms and I played psychedelic music and had lots of art and colours displayed...walked around the classroom pausing in front of each classmate for emphasis as I told my history(as Andy Warhol)
He said he fell in love with me that day. I got 50++/50 made my teacher cry and hug me. I swear I can't make this up.
So from that day forward he said I'm sitting beside him and that's when I started paying more attention to him. He had the most unique handwriting I've ever seen to date. Earlier today at my house I was holding his collection of poetry, but sometimes I don't read it, I just hold it. Next time I'll take a non-doxing pic of some words to display his handwriting.
I spent every day with him in person or on the phone for the next 3 years.
He backwards encouraged me to get into a work environment where I was surrounded by men.
He thought it clever of these 'supermodel' photographers to surround themselves with women all day.
It entered my subconscious that was a good idea.
I didn't think of what he inadvertantly did until just a few years ago, lol.
He was right though. It keeps you sharp being around your opposite gender.
The research ITDG cited is legit however there are also numerous studies that show promiscuous behavior in men leads to adverse outcomes over time. Similarly along the lines of desensitization and a grass is greener attitude which when followed to logical conclusion over time leads to lesser relationship satisfaction and impairment of pair bonding.If she can bear children then you shouldn't want to abstain because ugly, fat, and even some older women bear children all the time. That means you're not hardwired, it's still your choice.
On top of that the fact that men pair bond, and especially that their proclivity to do so varies individually, is itself evidence that men aren't "hardwired" to fvck as many women as possible. We tell men all the time to not catch "oneitis", we say how men grow up believing in "disney" and that men are the truly romantic sex, and now here you want to tell me that men are hardwired to fvck as many women as possible? This theorizing is a joke dude.
Except for men paired with unhappy women haha... see the results here: https://www.google.se/search?q=nagging+shortens+mens+lifespans&ie=&oe=It is well known that paired men live longer.
Which studies did you find for this by the way? I remember seeing one chart that showed how marital satisfaction negatively correlates with increased partner counts for both men and women, with the male line in blue and the female in yellow, but that's all I can recall seeing.The research ITDG cited is legit however there are also numerous studies that show promiscuous behavior in men leads to adverse outcomes over time. Similarly along the lines of desensitization and a grass is greener attitude which when followed to logical conclusion over time leads to lesser relationship satisfaction and impairment of pair bonding.
is that why I switched to coed h.s. and to this day I don't compete with women? She'll win every time, every scenario(unless a woman is hurting my brother or sonething)You don't think females won't be more critical of you and more competitive with you than males who might want to flirt with you and be attracted?
Yeah exactly, that's why I wanted to see a couple of them! I figured you would have links if you had recently been looking that stuff up, but I guessed then and still do that you meant for me to google them myself? Personally I would provide them myself if my argument depended on them, although I guess you could counter that with not caring whether I make something of what you said.@AttackFormation as I stated there are various studies.
Do you have studies for this part?And yes, it’s true that married men live longer and have greater life satisfaction, but only in men from older eras lol. It’s been going down in recent times, for obvious reasons.
As for the testosterone thing—that is MASSIVELY misrepresented. Married men do have lower testosterone than their unmarried counterparts and (historically) they don’t live as long. But that’s not because of testosterone. The men who live the longest amongst married couples have the highest levels of testosterone amongst the married group; the higher the testosterone levels were in the married man (relative to his age group), the longer he tended to lived.
I gotta be honest bro, I looked this stuff up years ago. I know the research/data exists, but that was hours of reading up on stuff bro and I really don’t have the motivation to do all that stuff all over again lol it’s just too daunting. And yeah BE is right in that research is so fked right now due to data manipulation and even falsified data, and it’s one of the reasons we’re running into the replication crisis right now. Universities only care about pumping out study after study, they don’t care about actually finding anything valuable. And researchers are really pressured to have found something because if you’ve been working on a project for like 2 years and the results come back that you didn’t find anything, you basically are kicked out because you aren’t finding anything, and now you’re homeless. In addition, the person/people/organization funding the study will oftentimes threaten to pull funding if the researchers don’t get the results they want. I know that several decades ago the federal government threatened researchers that they would pull NIH funding if their results for nutrition research didn’t reaffirm with the dogma that was prevalent at the time (that fat causes heart disease; you can thank that douchebag Ancel Keys for that). Other science fields aren’t as bad and took a long time to before they began being corrupted, particularly hard science, but now most of it is garbage really. **** is so ****ed. Especially right now.Do you have studies for this part?
So i was at work and focused on doing my work. One of my coworkers favorite things was to talk about new gadgets he purchase. Personally i don't believe in getting all the gadgets and wasting my money. So it was a sort of "competition" i had no intent of winning because it's not my thing. There are all these "keep up with the joneses" type "competitions" that are not important to me. I will do what i need to do and give my life what it needs.is that why I switched to coed h.s. and to this day I don't compete with women? She'll win every time, every scenario(unless a woman is hurting my brother or sonething)