"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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School was cool.

jason86

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I dont why but for some reason today ive been recollecting back to school and the times i had there. Maybe coz i just turned 19 the other day (time goes too damn quick)

But damn doesnt here anyone miss school? Ive chosen not to go to college so i dont know how thats like but seriously it is true, school is the best time of your life. Ive been thinking about a lot of the people who i knew (the ones who i havent stayed in touch with) and wondered what these people are up to. Its funny how you knew people for all those years and bang you aint seen them for years.

Anyone miss school? coz man School Was Cool.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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blinkwatt

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yeah im fresh out of high school,graduated 3 weeks ago and i miss alot already. all you younger don juans listen to me,and enjoy your time in high school!dont let **** hold you down!
 

quest

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get with the program guys..
a full 3.5 years outa high school, and life is a hell of alot better now.
highschool was good times.
but now is SOOOOOOOOOOOOO much better.

don't look back in despair.
look forward with excitement.
 

thefonz

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I don't miss it that much, life goes on and meet cooler and more diverse people......
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ShizamDaMan

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I kinda enjoy being a student. I mean, when you really think about it, learning all day is probably one of the better things you can do for a job. So many people to meet, so much to do.

Lookin forward to my 2nd year of the college right here :D
 
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