"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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thefonz

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It seems to me that trying to get girls in school is a little different than bars/partys/the streets. I like to use the direct method for random girls on the streets, and indirect/situational openors for group sets and bars. But I've found that in school (unless you're very confident and experienced) the best way to pick up girls in class is to be really into your studies. This way you have intelligent things to talk about and TONS of openers for people you haven't spoken to before. For me, it's kind of embarrasing (aswell as for her) if you try to talk sexual and use kino in a classroom setting. That worked for me ONCE on a freshmen girl but that was a rarity. I'm in alot of upper level classes now and I think that kind of behavior would be really frowned upon unless the situation was proper and I used it with the right wit.

Don't get me wrong, I still believe social proof is the King of all tactics towards meeting girls but some of the classes I'm in people just don't talk cus they hate the class/teacher or they are just very serious about their schoolwork so it's more difficult. Basically, my thought is that if you get really involved in the class material than you're chances for meeting new girls (and EVENTUALLY using gaming tactics) are at there best. Let's face it, no one wants to talk to a guy they hardly know that only complains, "This class sucks, I don't know what the hell she's talking about."
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Any thoughts on this djs?
 

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thefonz said:
It seems to me that trying to get girls in school is a little different than bars/partys/the streets. I like to use the direct method for random girls on the streets, and indirect/situational openors for group sets and bars. But I've found that in school (unless you're very confident and experienced) the best way to pick up girls in class is to be really into your studies. This way you have intelligent things to talk about and TONS of openers for people you haven't spoken to before.
So why not become "very confident and experienced" AND into your studies? Then what girl could resist you? :)
 
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