"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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thefonz

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It seems to me that trying to get girls in school is a little different than bars/partys/the streets. I like to use the direct method for random girls on the streets, and indirect/situational openors for group sets and bars. But I've found that in school (unless you're very confident and experienced) the best way to pick up girls in class is to be really into your studies. This way you have intelligent things to talk about and TONS of openers for people you haven't spoken to before. For me, it's kind of embarrasing (aswell as for her) if you try to talk sexual and use kino in a classroom setting. That worked for me ONCE on a freshmen girl but that was a rarity. I'm in alot of upper level classes now and I think that kind of behavior would be really frowned upon unless the situation was proper and I used it with the right wit.

Don't get me wrong, I still believe social proof is the King of all tactics towards meeting girls but some of the classes I'm in people just don't talk cus they hate the class/teacher or they are just very serious about their schoolwork so it's more difficult. Basically, my thought is that if you get really involved in the class material than you're chances for meeting new girls (and EVENTUALLY using gaming tactics) are at there best. Let's face it, no one wants to talk to a guy they hardly know that only complains, "This class sucks, I don't know what the hell she's talking about."
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Any thoughts on this djs?
 

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thefonz said:
It seems to me that trying to get girls in school is a little different than bars/partys/the streets. I like to use the direct method for random girls on the streets, and indirect/situational openors for group sets and bars. But I've found that in school (unless you're very confident and experienced) the best way to pick up girls in class is to be really into your studies. This way you have intelligent things to talk about and TONS of openers for people you haven't spoken to before.
So why not become "very confident and experienced" AND into your studies? Then what girl could resist you? :)
 
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