"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Smooth Player 056

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Lately Ive been keeping a journal to write down my approaches and things I could have done better if I came across the same situation.

Monday:
Walking to the Gym for PE I spot this HB8 walking in my direction. I casually walk up to her and say: Let me guess, your single? she said "yeah, why?" I responded "I got a sudden urge to meet you, why dont u give me your number, and ill call u" She gave me her number

Tuesday:
After school at 4:00 I had a meeting with my counselor, as Im walking to her office, I spot this HB9.9, shes wearing this mini skirt...and this red thong stiking out. She is sitting on a bench and im walking straight twards her behind her. I put my hand on her shoulder and say slip her a note while whispering in her ear "i have to tell u something really important" the note said CALL ME and my number. in tiny letters on the back I wrote "only call for sex"....she called me wednesday and she didnt notice the small letters (just as planned) and i busted her for trying to get me in bed.
I slipped her the note because she was with her friend and Im not good at appraoching multimple chicks in groups

I have more but i dont feel like typing right now lol

peace
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Zod

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I like your tuesday one, a question though.

Did you know her prior to doing this, have you made eye contact before or anything above that?

And check your dang Private Messages!
 

Inquire

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ur monday one sounds too casual. have u tried it multiple times?
 

Smooth Player 056

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nope, never seen either girls in my life b4 this

I click on my message box and it says, "not accesible"
 

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I've been sending you private messages about getting those DJ Boot Camp articles - can you send em to me?

Would be much appreciated.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Craig Reeves

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How about you try to get some good conversation in first before you go for the phone number. She would probably see more value in the the number (and you) if you would have demonstrated to her your higher social value.
 

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Wow, someone who knows what the funk they are talking about.

Thank you Craig Reeves, for clarrifying something. For some reason, guys here in the HS forum, seem to think that they have to rush to get the number of a girl that they see at school. Then they go to school, and use a cheap line, then have like a 2 minute conversation and then get the number.

While this is a good idea by all means, you are more then likely going to see this chick again. I mean you go to school with them for 4 years, more then likely, and you will see them again, if they are worth seeing.

Say they eat lunch at the same time as you, well chat them up at lunch a few times, and really get them somewhat used to you, then get there number, or AIM, atleast. You are almost garanteed success, because you aren't rushing like a fool.
 

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Originally posted by 08aisaac
Wow, someone who knows what the funk they are talking about.

Thank you Craig Reeves, for clarrifying something. For some reason, guys here in the HS forum, seem to think that they have to rush to get the number of a girl that they see at school. Then they go to school, and use a cheap line, then have like a 2 minute conversation and then get the number.

While this is a good idea by all means, you are more then likely going to see this chick again. I mean you go to school with them for 4 years, more then likely, and you will see them again, if they are worth seeing.

Say they eat lunch at the same time as you, well chat them up at lunch a few times, and really get them somewhat used to you, then get there number, or AIM, atleast. You are almost garanteed success, because you aren't rushing like a fool.
again, u enlighten me. thank u and craig reeves.
 

PiHiPlaya

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That "call only for sex" is risky as ****.

At my school that's a great way to get suspended for sexual harassment. You would need to be damn sure that the chick is into you otherwise you might be ****ed.

but good job man:up:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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