"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Smooth Player 056

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Lately Ive been keeping a journal to write down my approaches and things I could have done better if I came across the same situation.

Monday:
Walking to the Gym for PE I spot this HB8 walking in my direction. I casually walk up to her and say: Let me guess, your single? she said "yeah, why?" I responded "I got a sudden urge to meet you, why dont u give me your number, and ill call u" She gave me her number

Tuesday:
After school at 4:00 I had a meeting with my counselor, as Im walking to her office, I spot this HB9.9, shes wearing this mini skirt...and this red thong stiking out. She is sitting on a bench and im walking straight twards her behind her. I put my hand on her shoulder and say slip her a note while whispering in her ear "i have to tell u something really important" the note said CALL ME and my number. in tiny letters on the back I wrote "only call for sex"....she called me wednesday and she didnt notice the small letters (just as planned) and i busted her for trying to get me in bed.
I slipped her the note because she was with her friend and Im not good at appraoching multimple chicks in groups

I have more but i dont feel like typing right now lol

peace
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I like your tuesday one, a question though.

Did you know her prior to doing this, have you made eye contact before or anything above that?

And check your dang Private Messages!
 

Inquire

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ur monday one sounds too casual. have u tried it multiple times?
 

Smooth Player 056

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nope, never seen either girls in my life b4 this

I click on my message box and it says, "not accesible"
 

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I've been sending you private messages about getting those DJ Boot Camp articles - can you send em to me?

Would be much appreciated.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Craig Reeves

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How about you try to get some good conversation in first before you go for the phone number. She would probably see more value in the the number (and you) if you would have demonstrated to her your higher social value.
 

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Wow, someone who knows what the funk they are talking about.

Thank you Craig Reeves, for clarrifying something. For some reason, guys here in the HS forum, seem to think that they have to rush to get the number of a girl that they see at school. Then they go to school, and use a cheap line, then have like a 2 minute conversation and then get the number.

While this is a good idea by all means, you are more then likely going to see this chick again. I mean you go to school with them for 4 years, more then likely, and you will see them again, if they are worth seeing.

Say they eat lunch at the same time as you, well chat them up at lunch a few times, and really get them somewhat used to you, then get there number, or AIM, atleast. You are almost garanteed success, because you aren't rushing like a fool.
 

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Originally posted by 08aisaac
Wow, someone who knows what the funk they are talking about.

Thank you Craig Reeves, for clarrifying something. For some reason, guys here in the HS forum, seem to think that they have to rush to get the number of a girl that they see at school. Then they go to school, and use a cheap line, then have like a 2 minute conversation and then get the number.

While this is a good idea by all means, you are more then likely going to see this chick again. I mean you go to school with them for 4 years, more then likely, and you will see them again, if they are worth seeing.

Say they eat lunch at the same time as you, well chat them up at lunch a few times, and really get them somewhat used to you, then get there number, or AIM, atleast. You are almost garanteed success, because you aren't rushing like a fool.
again, u enlighten me. thank u and craig reeves.
 

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That "call only for sex" is risky as ****.

At my school that's a great way to get suspended for sexual harassment. You would need to be damn sure that the chick is into you otherwise you might be ****ed.

but good job man:up:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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