"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Wow what can i say just a great site.:up:

I'm a semi-Newbie

Question: Does anyone have any frame work or scenarios they use when they see a girl in a bus a taxi or where ever and want to meet her?
From you first saw her to getting her number is where we can start then move through each stages (i learn from these best and other may too, for me its better to ajust and apply to myself).
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You really just need a default opener for each scenario you want to meet girls in - on the bus I'd open with 'do you know what time we get to (name of town)?' and then just ask her where she's travelling to, what she's up to today etc.

Anything situational and relevant to the scenario you're in will get you into a conversation. After that just be playful, get some rapport, and then number close or go for an instant date.

If you want specific openers for the main, everyday places where you'll meet girls (all field tested openers btw), just ask and I'll post them.
 
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lol heres one i saw my dad do the other day at subway to the worker.

Dad: *examines cookies* Were those made today?

Girl: Yes... I made them..

Dad: You did a terrible job.

Girl: *shocked*

Dad: HAHA im just kidding.. but I was just making sure cause they looked alittle old..

Girl: *laughs*

from there the girl tried to initiate convo but was too ugly to take it any farther but just throwing it out there. nothin special. but thats a good question . its good to see someone better than you in action.
 
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Guitar_Whizz said:
You really just need a default opener for each scenario you want to meet girls in - on the bus I'd open with 'do you know what time we get to (name of town)?' and then just ask her where she's travelling to, what she's up to today etc.

Anything situational and relevant to the scenario you're in will get you into a conversation. After that just be playful, get some rapport, and then number close or go for an instant date.

If you want specific openers for the main, everyday places where you'll meet girls (all field tested openers btw), just ask and I'll post them.
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Thanks Guitar Whizz I would appreciate that.

I use this for example...


ME: Hi
HER: Hi
ME: What is your name?
HER: Say something other than her name (she usually never gives it to me due to the way I ask of course)
ME: (in a sadish teasing way) oooh, why did your mom had to go
and give you such a horrible name.
HER: (At this point she is usually laughing and gives up the name)
ME: Ah there we go now that wasn't so hard.
HER: Ask for my name (If she is doesn't no problem)
ME: Hey (say her name and after she answers) your probably not use to hitting on a hot guy like me but this is the part were you usually ask for my name (said with a warm voice and a slight smile).
HER: Ask for my name
ME: (said in a teasing way) Ooh, So you are hitting on me
HER: No I’m not really
ME: Don't sweat it you're doing fine, I'm "Chez" (or whatever your pet name is) but that's not my real name.
HER: What’s your real name?
ME: Its (for example and do not say the full name) "Rob", take a guess (I use a look with a little smirk smile that say guess), it starts with R and ends with T.
HER: Robert (They always guess it, due to the hints of course).
ME: Wow, you’re not just a pretty face but smart too (at this point I’m close to my stop).
HER: Smiling speechlessly
ME: (Stop the driver but before getting up) Hey "whatever her name is" it was nice talking to you (now get up to leave but before I leave) by the way what’s your number?
HER: (She'll usually give me the number 7 out of 10 times)
ME: I'll call you (now I get the hell out of there lol)

My transits are like 10 min for one and about 20 min for the other so I time my start.

(Oh and I always have the correct fare for a quick & slick exit)
 
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