"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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scars and cut marks

bfl

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anybody knows of any creams or products to remove these marks, u know how after it heels a lil bit u still can see the spot on your skin, well anybody knows of anything to at least make it lighter?

Me personally, it happened rubbing on my forhead too hard with a rag (dont ask me why) that i peeled som of my skin off and it bleeded slightly, now its beel like 3 weeks since it happend and it has heeled but i still see the mark of it.

Anybody knows what i can do?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Massage the area with Vitamin E enriched lotion.
 

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Chances are it wont leave a proper scar anyway.

To answer the question: what he said :p
 

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what are some good products , right now i just started applying some A+D ointment.
 

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Just get some lotion that has vitamin E in it. Doesn't matter the brand.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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