"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Fender

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I've been readin everything here for a while and I basically know most of the skills i need to acquire.

But the contant roadblock to my success is my inability to make cold approaches. I can attract people I already know (friends, school chicks, etc.) but i can't appraoch a goddam girl i see on the street. I know all about the 3s rule, confidence, positive imagery crap but they don't seem to work.

Maybe it was the way I was brought up and the environment here (I live in Hong Kong...a very "closed" place). I can't even approach girls I don't have interest in...that's how bad my situation is:p

Any guidance and help would be appreciated. Btw, "Just do it!" won't do for me...I just can't force myself to go over there....

-peace-
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by Fender
I just can't force myself to go over there....
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Theres your problem.

Take responsibility.

You have two options.

1. Grow some balls and start approaching.

2. Suffer.

These are the two and only options. There is NO other solution. The quicker you learn this, the quicker you start doing it.
 
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SomeRandomGuy

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The rarer it is when it comes to guys approaching the better for you. Like Sammo said, you only have 2 options. You either approach or you never find out if she’s the girl you’re looking for.

Believe me approach, it wont hurt and your balls wont fall off....so just do it for your own sake. Imagine those poor woman with so many guys afraid of approaching...so do them a favor;)

Also life is like a magazine. All the woman make themselves pretty so you can order, I mean…if you can order from a magazine or the internet then you can order in real life. There just waiting to be picked up.(just incase….woman are humans just like you not things, so just like you would love the perfect woman to approach you then so would they love the perfect guy approaching them.) SO APPROACH

The more you do it....the easier it’ll get.

Oh and…..Good Luck
:cheer: :rockon:
 
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I notice that when you first do it your terrified, but than you realize its not too bad, so after you pop your cold approach cherry you suddenly have an urge to approach girls, so once you pop that cherry its all down hill.
 
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