"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Scared away by interest

Crazy Asian

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So we try to get girls to like us right?
But whenever a girl shows high interest in me, I get scared.
Like this one girl. I thought she was hot. She asked for my number, and started e-mailing me like crazy. Now i'm kind of avoiding her. i dunno why.
She's hot, but I guess I'm a little scared off by her?
And it's like this with almost every girl that shows lots of interest in me.
Anyone else have something like this?

And fµck partial fraction decomposition.
when the fµck will we use that in real life.
fµck pre-calc
 

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HandyAndy

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Same situation, except that I have trouble actually talking to the girls showing high interest, yet its easy for me to talk to a girl who has no interest in me
 

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HandyAndy said:
Same situation, except that I have trouble actually talking to the girls showing high interest, yet its easy for me to talk to a girl who has no interest in me
yeah.
it's like i talk to her just fine when she's not showing any interest.
but when she does, it just feel so awkward.

i think it's because we've only had a few girls highly interested in us, and since it doesn't happen that often, we get scared away?
 

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Crazy Asian said:
yeah.
it's like i talk to her just fine when she's not showing any interest.
but when she does, it just feel so awkward.

i think it's because we've only had a few girls highly interested in us, and since it doesn't happen that often, we get scared away?
Thats what im thinking, its not the norm for us for girls to be attracted to us so we get nervous, its a situation we havnt been in alot of times and i think thats why we have troubles and nervousness talking to girls who shows interest
 

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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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ha this girl i'm talking to just asked me what i think about when i jack off.
i'm like.... turtles.
 

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Crazy Asian said:
ha this girl i'm talking to just asked me what i think about when i jack off.
i'm like.... turtles.

LMAO!!

You should have bust some C&F on her...tell her that she needs to stop thinking of you when she does it!

And I know what you mean...this one girl, she's totally taking charge! She got my #, and has called me a few times...and she even initiated kino! She's kinda cute, but somehow I'm pretty turned off by it....I'm not nervous, but somehow, I don't feel like being around her.

And yeah, pre-calc sucks. Glad I graduate on Friday!!!

Turtles...sigh, classic.
 

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Crazy Asian said:
And fµck partial fraction decomposition.
when the fµck will we use that in real life.
engineers use that sht all the time to break down transfer functions and laplace transforms, for control diagrams, stability analysis, etc
 

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It's kinda funny, you get guys on here that start getting hot girls, having women become highly attracted to them, and then get scared by it?

Isn't that what we all came here for in the first place?

What is it like, "Holy crap dude that lady over there is *bangin'*, How can I avoid screwing her tonight?"

Crazy how that happens, right?

Ask yourself, what do you *really want to get out of this? what was the point of coming here to SS? To pick up chicks right? Well now you can do that, but you're not satisfied with that either. Part of this has to do with your taste in people evolving over time. Sure she's hot, who gives a flying rats anus. Does she have a brain in that pretty little skull? Is it even about the girls anymore? Just think about it for a while. Where do you want to go with this new found power?
 

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Same. I guess we're all just scared of commitment. We must all be on a PUA site for a REASON..
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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HandyAndy said:
Thats what im thinking, its not the norm for us for girls to be attracted to us so we get nervous, its a situation we havnt been in alot of times and i think thats why we have troubles and nervousness talking to girls who shows interest
And Im third with you guys.

Its like "are you kidding me? Im interested in you and youre showing signs that you just might be on the same boat?! NO FCUKING WAY!?".

I think its also because we're taught on this site how to "build" attraction that when it comes those rare times when we havent done anything conciously to make a girl interested in us that catch us off guard. It personally makes me wonder what I had done prior to make her so interested. Was I physically attractive to her?(cute/hot) Was I naturally aloof for the first time while everyone showered her with attention? Did my fart smell good? etc.

Yes, and finally when we are aware that they are interested comes the second part: alright...so what now?...Oh yea! ask her out duh!...Uh huh, so how long do I wait?...How should I ask her out?...Is this a good date idea or should I try something else?...Oh man, what if she's just teasing me? What if shes just trying to lead me on?!...etc to that too.
 
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