"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Scandinavian Summer Tour

Matt Rogers

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Hi
I was wondering if a few European DJs were interested in spending a week or two clubbing and picking up girls in Sweden/Denmark etc around July time. I was planning on going but don't want to go with any of my AFC friends as they all have girlfriends and will cramp my style.

I do not pretend to be an expert DJ, but I am reasonably good looking and have enough balls to go out there and hit on women.

If anyone is interested give me a PM, and we can sort of talk a bit over the next 6 months and see if we get on.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Aycee

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Summer tour sounds good.

I was thinking of hitting up Spain, and helping some of my AFC buds; but a DJ tour of Scandinavia, sounds infinitely better.
 

Matt Rogers

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Cool, I will see what dates I can do closer to the time, but a week hitting the clubs at Stockholm with some DJs should be really good. From what I hear from Swedish friends, while Swedish men are often very good looking, they are very shy and completely uselss without lots of alcohol in them. B9 is Danish and perhaps we could meet up with him in Denmark and he could show us the hotspots.
 

Aycee

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Sounds like a definite plan.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Centaurion

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hit me up if you ever come to oslo, norway. I'll be there around summertime.
 
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