"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Scandinavian Summer Tour

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Matt Rogers

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Hi
I was wondering if a few European DJs were interested in spending a week or two clubbing and picking up girls in Sweden/Denmark etc around July time. I was planning on going but don't want to go with any of my AFC friends as they all have girlfriends and will cramp my style.

I do not pretend to be an expert DJ, but I am reasonably good looking and have enough balls to go out there and hit on women.

If anyone is interested give me a PM, and we can sort of talk a bit over the next 6 months and see if we get on.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Summer tour sounds good.

I was thinking of hitting up Spain, and helping some of my AFC buds; but a DJ tour of Scandinavia, sounds infinitely better.
 
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Cool, I will see what dates I can do closer to the time, but a week hitting the clubs at Stockholm with some DJs should be really good. From what I hear from Swedish friends, while Swedish men are often very good looking, they are very shy and completely uselss without lots of alcohol in them. B9 is Danish and perhaps we could meet up with him in Denmark and he could show us the hotspots.
 
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Sounds like a definite plan.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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hit me up if you ever come to oslo, norway. I'll be there around summertime.
 
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