"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Says i act like i dont care?

illmatic1005

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My girlfriend and I are in a huge fight.. She said "you have this whatever attitude like you dont even care, and u might think it makes u looks strong, but it just makes u seem like u dont care"

I didnt know i did this. Is it good to look like u dont care?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Desert Fox

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if she has a valid point. - ok acknowledge it

if she doesn't - IGNORED
 

everywomanshero

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Things to show caring:
Eye contact
Touching
Spending time together
engagged in conversation
dual voiced, empathetic conversation
 

Mavrick

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If this is the person you are, why change? Tell her to accept it because you're a laid back guy. You like being free from worry and with her you don't have all that. Otherwise, she can take a hike. If you are content with who you are and what you do, why change?
 
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