"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Says i act like i dont care?

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illmatic1005

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My girlfriend and I are in a huge fight.. She said "you have this whatever attitude like you dont even care, and u might think it makes u looks strong, but it just makes u seem like u dont care"

I didnt know i did this. Is it good to look like u dont care?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Desert Fox

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if she has a valid point. - ok acknowledge it

if she doesn't - IGNORED
 
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everywomanshero

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Things to show caring:
Eye contact
Touching
Spending time together
engagged in conversation
dual voiced, empathetic conversation
 
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Mavrick

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If this is the person you are, why change? Tell her to accept it because you're a laid back guy. You like being free from worry and with her you don't have all that. Otherwise, she can take a hike. If you are content with who you are and what you do, why change?
 
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