"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

Saying the wrong thing

R

Rint

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 26, 2005
Messages
323
Reaction score
1
Location
Florida
I was wondering how to stop saying dumb things and the wrong thing. I dont think i have this problem, but alot of people who have this problem ask me. Out of sympathy i'd like to help them. Any advice guys? THANX!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

C

ChrizZ

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 12, 2006
Messages
2,028
Reaction score
27
It always depends on the situation. Don´t worry, pain is a great teacher. You´ll eventually learn when to shut up once you gain maturity and life experience.
 
J

JPFromTally

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 5, 2000
Messages
284
Reaction score
19
Location
Florida
It is better to keep your mouth closed and let people think you are a fool than to open it and remove all doubt. ---- Mark Twain.
 
R

Rint

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 26, 2005
Messages
323
Reaction score
1
Location
Florida
That is some good advice, but i wanna learn how to say the right and cool thing or the funny thing at the right time cause what u say in a situation determines how people view u.
 
N

nvictor

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 14, 2005
Messages
212
Reaction score
1
Location
Fredericksburg
Rint, there is nothing in this world that is not based on reaction. What I mean is that you have to program yourself to react funny, to say funny things. It's quite impressive the amount of work behind a stand-up comedy.

I think you should look for the book "Comedy writing secrets - Melvin Helitzer"
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

S

samaka

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 26, 2006
Messages
29
Reaction score
0
Confidence. Generally people only say stupid and dumb things when they are nervous and trying to get a laugh out of someone or impress them.

Unless your being racist, homophobic, overly sexist or deliberately insulting, you shouldn't care what you say. People aren't going to remember it forever.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top