"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Saying hi to women as you walk past?

Genos

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So, another real-quick micro game question...at uni (or just in general), you often see people you know passing by. If you both notice each other/make eye contact, obviously you acknowledge each other say 'sup, and it's all good.

But there are cases in which you see the other person, but the other person doesn't see you. If it's one of my bros, hell yeah I'd call out to him. But for women, I'm a little more cautious - calling out to a girl like this seems a bit attention/validation seeking...or am I overthinking it?

Is it cool to call out to a girl if she doesn't notice you passing by? I ask this, because I sometimes feel awkward when i kinda pass by without acknowledging someone I know, and they may have noticed me as I passed by or were engaged in conversation, etc.

Just super-basic social dynamics, need some help >_>
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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devilkingx2

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you can do it, no big deal,don't worry what random people think of you unless you plan to loudly embarass yourself in front of a big crowd for some reason.

though, do expect most women to completely ignore you, women are like that, not so friendly.
 

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I think its a great idea. I knew a guy who used to do that, eventually he knew half the campus. It could have been a great way to slay endless chicks but he was a relationship guy.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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