"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Saying goodbye

evolvingnerd

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i see several girls several times a week and was just wondering how to say goodbye without sounding like a loser
with a few girls it's been a bit awkward and "offish" if u get me

ideas plz
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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All in the body language and tone, I'd think. I'd say hit her with a kiss if the time is right, then pick your favorite good-bye line and give it to her with a smile on your face and your shoulders back, indicating how much fun you had with her and how much fun you know she had with you. Then walk. Don't linger. Don't run. Just walk away, head up and shoulders back. :)
 

evolvingnerd

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dammit
i feel like i've been acting like a dykeface with my goodbyes
probably like a true AFC, although i got the whole walking thing right

i usually say something along th elines of see you tomorrow, maybe with a slight smile, but i know it's not as comfortable as around my friends

any ****y lines or other ideas/
 

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Dude, what's this "walking thing." You're overanalyzing if it's what I think it is.

Anyways, I just say:

It's been nice chatting, but I gotta go take care of some things. Take it easy (or Take Care. or See you later. or Later. or Bye)

I don't see what's so hard, mate. As NewMan said, just do what you say with your buddies. I think you're trying too hard.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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