"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Saying "baby", "honey", etc.

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I've been curious what's this boards opinion about using words such as "honey", "baby", "dear", etc. when talking to your girlfriend?

I've been in a LDR for over two months now, everything is going well. I don't call her some days and yet she still calls me two or three times that same day, so I know her IL is good to very high. I've started calling her "baby" alot recently, and "honey" sparingly. Do you believe I'm giving it out too liberally or does it not matter really?

I enjoy doing it, but I've learned that in the dating world you can't always do what you want.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I heard from some dating show, I think it was the love line by adam corolla and the other dude, they say that calling a woman by her name is much more mature and gives men more respect from their women. But they were talking about calling her by name while fvcking her, so I have no idea.
 
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good way to earn brownie points. :up:

(and if you've ever tasted my mom-in-law's homemade brownies, you'll see the wisdom here!)
 
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