"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Saying "baby", "honey", etc.

itishe

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I've been curious what's this boards opinion about using words such as "honey", "baby", "dear", etc. when talking to your girlfriend?

I've been in a LDR for over two months now, everything is going well. I don't call her some days and yet she still calls me two or three times that same day, so I know her IL is good to very high. I've started calling her "baby" alot recently, and "honey" sparingly. Do you believe I'm giving it out too liberally or does it not matter really?

I enjoy doing it, but I've learned that in the dating world you can't always do what you want.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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unorthodox

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I heard from some dating show, I think it was the love line by adam corolla and the other dude, they say that calling a woman by her name is much more mature and gives men more respect from their women. But they were talking about calling her by name while fvcking her, so I have no idea.
 

Warboss Alex

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good way to earn brownie points. :up:

(and if you've ever tasted my mom-in-law's homemade brownies, you'll see the wisdom here!)
 
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