I just wonder about that, seems pointless to me. Like when guys censor girls names as "HB7" and even hide their own real names. Do these guys honestly think that if they tell you a girls name is Marissa, somebody is actually going to know who that SPECIFIC Marissa you approached is? I mean even if they knew what state or country you lived, there's no way they could really boil it down to THAT specific girl, especially with no last names. Marissa is a very common name and the person would have to go through millions of Marissa's and still he wouldn't know who that exact Marissa was. Point is you give a girls name on a forum, an online rapist or something wouldn't be able to find her. Hiding girls names is rather pointless.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Say why do guys sometimes 'censor' girls names in FRs?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
navyseal2101
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Well if somebody says HB7 i can see it, ut if somebody says marissa it could be and ugly marrissa or a hot one. More descriptive. And I know Marrissa, dont even think about it.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
smooth guy
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Who knows, maybe that "Marissa" shows up and reads the post.
It's happened before.
It's happened before.
benjiprice
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Couple reasons:
1. Like navy said, HBx is a lot more interesting to the rest of us because it's a common nomenclature we all understand.
2. Some post can get very specific, moreso if it's about an LTR. You don't want the girl or someone who knows her stumbling on to the site and seeing this, however unlikey that might seem. My ex was recently on my computer and wanted to log into facebook. I later realized that she might have noticed "fa...stseduction.com".
1. Like navy said, HBx is a lot more interesting to the rest of us because it's a common nomenclature we all understand.
2. Some post can get very specific, moreso if it's about an LTR. You don't want the girl or someone who knows her stumbling on to the site and seeing this, however unlikey that might seem. My ex was recently on my computer and wanted to log into facebook. I later realized that she might have noticed "fa...stseduction.com".
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
If I remember rightly, it happened to Mystery, hence the creation of Mystery's lounge.
Also, don't lose any sleep over it flower.
Also, don't lose any sleep over it flower.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
yeah, but this was when he was not widely known and charged $300/400 a workshop. His fee is somewhere in the thousands now.
