I just wonder about that, seems pointless to me. Like when guys censor girls names as "HB7" and even hide their own real names. Do these guys honestly think that if they tell you a girls name is Marissa, somebody is actually going to know who that SPECIFIC Marissa you approached is? I mean even if they knew what state or country you lived, there's no way they could really boil it down to THAT specific girl, especially with no last names. Marissa is a very common name and the person would have to go through millions of Marissa's and still he wouldn't know who that exact Marissa was. Point is you give a girls name on a forum, an online rapist or something wouldn't be able to find her. Hiding girls names is rather pointless.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Say why do guys sometimes 'censor' girls names in FRs?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
navyseal2101
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Well if somebody says HB7 i can see it, ut if somebody says marissa it could be and ugly marrissa or a hot one. More descriptive. And I know Marrissa, dont even think about it.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
smooth guy
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Who knows, maybe that "Marissa" shows up and reads the post.
It's happened before.
It's happened before.
benjiprice
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Couple reasons:
1. Like navy said, HBx is a lot more interesting to the rest of us because it's a common nomenclature we all understand.
2. Some post can get very specific, moreso if it's about an LTR. You don't want the girl or someone who knows her stumbling on to the site and seeing this, however unlikey that might seem. My ex was recently on my computer and wanted to log into facebook. I later realized that she might have noticed "fa...stseduction.com".
1. Like navy said, HBx is a lot more interesting to the rest of us because it's a common nomenclature we all understand.
2. Some post can get very specific, moreso if it's about an LTR. You don't want the girl or someone who knows her stumbling on to the site and seeing this, however unlikey that might seem. My ex was recently on my computer and wanted to log into facebook. I later realized that she might have noticed "fa...stseduction.com".
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
If I remember rightly, it happened to Mystery, hence the creation of Mystery's lounge.
Also, don't lose any sleep over it flower.
Also, don't lose any sleep over it flower.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
yeah, but this was when he was not widely known and charged $300/400 a workshop. His fee is somewhere in the thousands now.
