"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"Say something [insert adjective here]"

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I've been away from the boards for awhile, actively DJ'ing, which I think is a very good thing! Breaking out of the over-analysing rut has increased my success rate greatly, and I was wondering if I'd even need to come back to these forums now that I've got a better grasp on DJ'ing.

Anyway, I'm back because I've noticed something odd with one of my prime targets. Every once in a while, she'll randomly go "say something sweet", or, "say something dirty", or, "tell me a secret about you", or something along those lines. Each time I've faltered and not known what to say to these things. Each time I break down and give a half-assed reply to each. Is there even a good reply? And what do I make of these weird comments?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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So pimp its scary

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Say something :

dirty ? Bring one of your gfs over and I'll show you.
sweet? isn't sweet the way I bend you over like this...
secret? (if during sex) your sister was better, and ride her till you come (if not) make something up

Don't make too much of it, but ask her the same questions and you might get insight into what she wants to hear.
 
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Why do you succomb to the wishes of a hor? And why do you feel the need to respond to such insignificant demands. Tell her that you only answer intelligent questions!
 

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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Why do you succomb to the wishes of a hor? And why do you feel the need to respond to such insignificant demands. Tell her that you only answer intelligent questions!
Why not? NOTHING wrong with answering those kind of questions once in a while. I tend to ask them myself to tease certain girls.
 
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