Say a girl you really like has low IL...is there anything you can do?

[Anargyros]

OP is asking how to manipulate reality to suit his needs.

I'm suggesting he change his needs to suit reality.

What is reality? What's your source for "reality"?. Your experience?. Psychology?. The closest thing to "reality" we know is science, and psychology can't be defined as a science, except for very limited stuff. When it comes to human mind, there's no such thing as "reality".

 

[sylvester the cat]

What is reality? What's your source for "reality"?. Your experience?. Psychology?. The closest thing to "reality" we know is science, and psychology can't be defined as a science, except for very limited stuff. When it comes to human mind, there's no such thing as "reality".

Reality in op's case is this girl not being interested in him. We can argue the toss over the nature of reality if you like but it's not going to help OP get laid.

 

[Anargyros]

Reality in op's case is this girl not being interested in him. We can argue the toss over the nature of reality if you like but it's not going to help OP get laid.

It seems to me the OP already knows the chick has low/no interest. And that the #1 option is NEXT. He is dropping a big "WHAT IF" he doesn't and try to get the girl to like him. I'm not qualified enough to tell what kind of approach MIGHT buy him a chance - but I don't see any reason not to try as long as he keeps spinning plates and this girl rejection doesn't hurt him. I have 15 posts here and I know that whenever someone comes up with a "how do I make this girl like me" the default answer is "NEXT". The OP has 1100 posts...

 

[sylvester the cat]

It seems to me the OP already knows the chick has low/no interest. And that the #1 option is NEXT. He is dropping a big "WHAT IF" he doesn't and try to get the girl to like him. I'm not qualified enough to tell what kind of approach MIGHT buy him a chance - but I don't see any reason not to try as long as he keeps spinning plates and this girl rejection doesn't hurt him. I have 15 posts here and I know that whenever someone comes up with a "how do I make this girl like me" the default answer is "NEXT". The OP has 1100 posts...

1100 posts of mainly rubbish.

Why pursue someone you know is not interested?

There's a reason to next. Aggressively pursuing is more likely to have the reverse effect and lead OP to lower self esteem the more he fails.

With nexting not only does OP keep his self respect in tact but he has more chance of creating attraction by going ghost and pursuing other options than he does by pursuing someone who is not interested.