“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Say a girl you really like has low IL...is there anything you can do?

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OP is asking how to manipulate reality to suit his needs.

I'm suggesting he change his needs to suit reality.
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What is reality? What's your source for "reality"?. Your experience?. Psychology?. The closest thing to "reality" we know is science, and psychology can't be defined as a science, except for very limited stuff. When it comes to human mind, there's no such thing as "reality".
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Anargyros said:
What is reality? What's your source for "reality"?. Your experience?. Psychology?. The closest thing to "reality" we know is science, and psychology can't be defined as a science, except for very limited stuff. When it comes to human mind, there's no such thing as "reality".
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Reality in op's case is this girl not being interested in him. We can argue the toss over the nature of reality if you like but it's not going to help OP get laid.
 
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Reality in op's case is this girl not being interested in him. We can argue the toss over the nature of reality if you like but it's not going to help OP get laid.
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It seems to me the OP already knows the chick has low/no interest. And that the #1 option is NEXT. He is dropping a big "WHAT IF" he doesn't and try to get the girl to like him. I'm not qualified enough to tell what kind of approach MIGHT buy him a chance - but I don't see any reason not to try as long as he keeps spinning plates and this girl rejection doesn't hurt him. I have 15 posts here and I know that whenever someone comes up with a "how do I make this girl like me" the default answer is "NEXT". The OP has 1100 posts...
 
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It seems to me the OP already knows the chick has low/no interest. And that the #1 option is NEXT. He is dropping a big "WHAT IF" he doesn't and try to get the girl to like him. I'm not qualified enough to tell what kind of approach MIGHT buy him a chance - but I don't see any reason not to try as long as he keeps spinning plates and this girl rejection doesn't hurt him. I have 15 posts here and I know that whenever someone comes up with a "how do I make this girl like me" the default answer is "NEXT". The OP has 1100 posts...
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1100 posts of mainly rubbish.

Why pursue someone you know is not interested?

There's a reason to next. Aggressively pursuing is more likely to have the reverse effect and lead OP to lower self esteem the more he fails.

With nexting not only does OP keep his self respect in tact but he has more chance of creating attraction by going ghost and pursuing other options than he does by pursuing someone who is not interested.
 
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