saw an EX

[sav]

so i saw an Ex girlfriend, we havent really spoken and kept up together for about 3 months... when i met her i could instantly feel that connection we once had...


how do you deal with wanting to be with somebody yet knowing that if it didnt work out the first time, it wont work out the second time, it wont work out the third time.. heh...

how do you completely heal? there's a reason i dont keep up with her, because it brings back old feelings, and i can tell its mutual and not just one sided...

we went out for a coffee, caught up a little and i could feel that vibe... when you are truely in sync with the other persons thoughts, to the point that they dont have to explain anything. I havent had that with a girl since and ir eally really miss it.. heh..

i'd like people who have been through something similar to reply... if you havent then please dont bother..

 

[sav]

bump.. anybody?

 

[Ace of Flames]

Well why did you break up the first time?

 

[insanity]

banging into exs sucks big time unless you've met a great new girlfriend and you wonder what you ever saw in that she beast. exs are exs for a reason...things didn't work out. ever have a good job and after working there for so long, it gets crappy and you eventually quit. would you go back to that job? of course you wouldn't unless you were desperate for money. women don't change. if she was a nag, she'll still be a nag. if she was a b@tch, she'll still be a b@tch. don't let her sweet attitude hide the fact that she is an ex and it got there for a reason.

instead of focusing on the past ex. look all around you. there are many beautiful girls out there that will blow your mind. look to the future

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

...how do you completely heal? there's a reason i dont keep up with her, because it brings back old feelings, and i can tell its mutual and not just one sided....

You stop obsessing over the ex and move on. You realize what didn't work, you resolve not to get into that type of situation again and you get on with your life. Do something (or somebody) and replace those obsessive thoughts.

 

[kyphan]

A coworker of mine once said, "You don't ever get over the big things; you just learn to live with them." She was speaking in reference to her son passing away, and it holds true to any major event. This is one of the few times you have to be rational and not trust your gut (or your heart). Stay away from her. Do not do anything with her. She is not your friend, maybe she could be when you can be near her and not get butterflies in your stomach - but stay away.