"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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saw a girl in a parking lot

Yapper

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I was sitting in my car and she drove up, ran into a store, ran back out. She was small and cute and alone. There was ample opportunity and I wanted to game her but it seemed...weird. Don't know how that would look just jumping out and approaching. I had the balls for about 2 seconds but it didn't last. Afterwards I couldn't think of a cool way to have worked it. What would you guys do in this situation?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ace of Flames

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Was it at night? Cuz then you'd be likely to get pepper sprayed or somethin.

"Don't be sweatin' like you got mace in yo face bytch!"
 

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I would have gamed her whether you got her or not you still approached, there was no reason for you to think about whether it correct to approach or not. I came to that realization when I was in a crowded ass bus and this hb8 was in the back and I was thinking "fuvk I must approach that" and then came to the realization of how Pickup can just keep getting more fun everyday because now it was like a challenge to get past all these crowded people, talk to her while everyone is right there and get the number.

It was very different and it ended up not going no where and my stop came up anyway, in the end I was surprised at how hard the approach was (logistics wise) but in reality its just another approach.

Now if you had to do a mad dash to get to where she was I wouldn't have bothered but if you would have been able to get closeby where she would be able to hear you speak then I would''ve approached.
 
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I understand the DJ mindset and all, but come on people. Don't approach a girl in a parking lot.
 

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Yeah it was at night.

That's a good way of looking at it Distant. I wish I had just done it for fun and to see what would happen.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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