"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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saw a girl in a parking lot

Yapper

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I was sitting in my car and she drove up, ran into a store, ran back out. She was small and cute and alone. There was ample opportunity and I wanted to game her but it seemed...weird. Don't know how that would look just jumping out and approaching. I had the balls for about 2 seconds but it didn't last. Afterwards I couldn't think of a cool way to have worked it. What would you guys do in this situation?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ace of Flames

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Was it at night? Cuz then you'd be likely to get pepper sprayed or somethin.

"Don't be sweatin' like you got mace in yo face bytch!"
 

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I would have gamed her whether you got her or not you still approached, there was no reason for you to think about whether it correct to approach or not. I came to that realization when I was in a crowded ass bus and this hb8 was in the back and I was thinking "fuvk I must approach that" and then came to the realization of how Pickup can just keep getting more fun everyday because now it was like a challenge to get past all these crowded people, talk to her while everyone is right there and get the number.

It was very different and it ended up not going no where and my stop came up anyway, in the end I was surprised at how hard the approach was (logistics wise) but in reality its just another approach.

Now if you had to do a mad dash to get to where she was I wouldn't have bothered but if you would have been able to get closeby where she would be able to hear you speak then I would''ve approached.
 
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I understand the DJ mindset and all, but come on people. Don't approach a girl in a parking lot.
 

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Yeah it was at night.

That's a good way of looking at it Distant. I wish I had just done it for fun and to see what would happen.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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