saw a CA girl the day after I number closed - did I handle it well?

[duke007]

A couple of days ago, I found myself sitting near a pretty cute girl on the tram heading toward Uni.

I never looked directly at her eyes and didn't initiate any convo - the tram was really crowded, a fat stinky dude was leaning over me and still felt a little strange from an earlier nosebleed.

Luckily we got out at the same stop, a couple of stops before the main campus. She was clomping along beside me, so I said, "Those are some noisy shoes you've got there," and she laughed. So screw the 3 second rule.

We were talking and she acted fairly interested and comfortable, it turned out we study in the same building. I got the number.

Then yesterday I was walking into the building and she was standing against a pillar on the path to the lifts looking at her phone. She looked up and smiled, and it took me a split second to remember who it was!

I smiled back and continued walking quickly towards her, she looked down briefly then back again and smiled. By this time I was almost up to her, and without breaking stride, smiled and said, "How's it going?" and continued on to the lifts.

She must have thought I was going to stop and talk! (everyone uses the stairs in that building). By the way she looked a bit hotter, which pleased me.

What do you think? should I have stayed and talked?

 

[gav]

probably should have stayed and talked for a few secs or even if u were going to plan something, u should have said "hey, i was going to call u, but here u are, so u wanna get together sat nite? or sometin)

that would have been the dj thing i rekon, but revertheless, simple and sweet approach m8. I liked that.

 

[duke007]

Yeah you're right, but it's only the day after, and I want her to wait a few days before I set a date.

Who knows, maybe if I see her again tomorrow, I'll ask her out!

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Originally posted by gav
probably should have stayed and talked for a few secs or even if u were going to plan something, u should have said "hey, i was going to call u, but here u are, so u wanna get together sat nite? or sometin)

that would have been the dj thing i rekon, but revertheless, simple and sweet approach m8. I liked that.

I totally DISAGREE!! Don't say things like "I was going to call you but..." Don't even worry about whether you should've stayed and talked. Your doing fine, makes her think your a busy man. Call her up or if you know your going to see her soon, go up to her and arrange a get together.


Your doing fine.



PIMP

 

[isotope]

you should have made conversation but i wouldnt have mentioned teh date/ number
unless she brings it up

she might assume you were in a hurry but personally if i were her i would find that a little cold.

 

[duke007]

heh

I called her up today and she said she better not see me for coffee because her boyfriend may not like it