Hey fellas. You think it's possible to reverse the power position when the chic thinks she is higher value than you? If its a slight tendency. I mean usually they start to look for others then, but we can kind of pull back to reverse it.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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It's all about what you think in this situation. That's exactly what you will project.
Who gives a fvck what she thinks. What do you think? are you projecting the fact that you think she his higher whatever on to her?
get out of her head and stay in your own. You are the oak tree she is the squirrel.
Yeah, but when you face a pull back is what i mean
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You might be able to achieve something by talking to her about other women who are interested in you. But that presupposes that she has high interest.
Don't think for a minute that you're going to win a game of chicken with a woman like that if she's just looking for validation with you in the first place. If she's semi hot she can replace you with ten other guys at the snap of her finger.
You have to truly not care.
Don't think for a minute that you're going to win a game of chicken with a woman like that if she's just looking for validation with you in the first place. If she's semi hot she can replace you with ten other guys at the snap of her finger.
You have to truly not care.
Thing is we are dating. And having sex regularly. I might have been too available the last week. She did this before.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.