"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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saving a lost oppurtunity

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we all have them....

the times when you kick youself for not getting the number

I was fliriting with a woman this week at her job, and i chickened out. We I got home, i realized that i was a dumb a$$ and i should have at least tried for a ###

Its to late now, but i was thinking -- what if i had called her office later in the day, to ask her out. I would have had to leave a message on her machine, and she would have known that i was too scared to ask in person.

what do you guys think?

Could this have worked, or should you just move on when you mess up?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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no, don't call her office phone to ASK HER Out>?!

You missed it, but tomorrow's a new day to try again. bud.
 
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If a woman's interested, she'll overlook these "lost opportunities" and wait a reasonable amount of time for you to finally show up. It's not one of those "one shot, one kill" deals. Girls aren't robots, where the slightest f-up on your part will automatically and irreversibly erase you or any hopes of dating you from their memory banks.
 
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