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This thread is for guys who don't know what to do if they suspect their girl is cheating , has evidence she is cheating , dealing with a chick showing major disrespect or any signs of low interest are noticed.
get out of there as soon as possible , its very likely she saw signs of weakness and lost respect for you and this equals a recipe for disaster , female nature is ruthless and has no heart... do you really want to risk being cucked out ?? ignoring the red flags , thinkin your ''wifey '' is loyal . comin home kissin her all in the mouth after some guys **** and jizz juice all in her mouth? even worse it could be a guy you know , so basically he is puttin his **** and kids juice in YOUR mouth purposefully...basically phaggin you out on the low and you don't even know? the moment a woman shows any signs of disrespect your days are numbered idgaf how many kids you have idgaf how much you love her, quite frankly idont care if it kills you. your balls and your masculinity is sacred and must be protected at all times, if you stay and try to work things out with a liar or a cheater you are headed down a road to ruin, a doorway into hell. you are communicating you are a cuck phagg who is willing to be disrespected , you give her the power , you are her little bich. some men even not only willingly share their wives but its like their brain , their mind has become too weak and submissive they deface their body in acts that involve other men and their wife that are too graphic to mention here . the mind has simply got too weak . nowadays men are weaker than ever , softer than ever , t levels are lowering year after year. BUT men are slowly coming around, even with the whole mgtow , tfl, incel movements rising, perception and awareness is also being raised , we are b1tchin' and crying about female nature but we are slowly coming around, hopefully more men are working out and improving themselves now than ever , since youtube has blown up with various dating coaches and the manosphere preaching self love and growth.


DEDICATE YOUR LIFE TO BECOMING UNSTOPPABLE , UNBREAKABLE IN MIND,BODY AND SOUL AND YOU WILL ONLY ATTRACT WOMEN WHO SEE YOU AS THE DOMINANT , YOU AS THE KING . ACCEPT NOTHING LESS THAN PURE MASTERY OVER YOUR MIND MAKE IT A COMMITMENT TO YOURSELF TO BECOME THE BADDEST MOTHAFUKKA ON THE PLANET OR DIE TRYIN' IT STARTS FROM WITHIN GUYS.
HAVE A POWERFUL DAY AND GOOD LUCK TO ALL..
 

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Great post.
This thread is for guys who don't know what to do if they suspect their girl is cheating , has evidence she is cheating , dealing with a chick showing major disrespect or any signs of low interest are noticed.
get out of there as soon as possible , its very likely she saw signs of weakness and lost respect for you and this equals a recipe for disaster , female nature is ruthless and has no heart... do you really want to risk being cucked out ?? ignoring the red flags , thinkin your ''wifey '' is loyal . comin home kissin her all in the mouth after some guys **** and jizz juice all in her mouth? even worse it could be a guy you know , so basically he is puttin his **** and kids juice in YOUR mouth purposefully...basically phaggin you out on the low and you don't even know? the moment a woman shows any signs of disrespect your days are numbered idgaf how many kids you have idgaf how much you love her, quite frankly idont care if it kills you. your balls and your masculinity is sacred and must be protected at all times, if you stay and try to work things out with a liar or a cheater you are headed down a road to ruin, a doorway into hell. you are communicating you are a cuck phagg who is willing to be disrespected , you give her the power , you are her little bich. some men even not only willingly share their wives but its like their brain , their mind has become too weak and submissive they deface their body in acts that involve other men and their wife that are too graphic to mention here . the mind has simply got too weak . nowadays men are weaker than ever , softer than ever , t levels are lowering year after year. BUT men are slowly coming around, even with the whole mgtow , tfl, incel movements rising, perception and awareness is also being raised , we are b1tchin' and crying about female nature but we are slowly coming around, hopefully more men are working out and improving themselves now than ever , since youtube has blown up with various dating coaches and the manosphere preaching self love and growth.


DEDICATE YOUR LIFE TO BECOMING UNSTOPPABLE , UNBREAKABLE IN MIND,BODY AND SOUL AND YOU WILL ONLY ATTRACT WOMEN WHO SEE YOU AS THE DOMINANT , YOU AS THE KING . ACCEPT NOTHING LESS THAN PURE MASTERY OVER YOUR MIND MAKE IT A COMMITMENT TO YOURSELF TO BECOME THE BADDEST MOTHAFUKKA ON THE PLANET OR DIE TRYIN' IT STARTS FROM WITHIN GUYS.
HAVE A POWERFUL DAY AND GOOD LUCK TO ALL..
It's funny how women can take even the most dominant Alpha, fvck him like a porn star, soften him up a bit, and play his @ss.

We surely need to keep our guards up.

Great post!
 

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Great post.


It's funny how women can take even the most dominant Alpha, fvck him like a porn star, soften him up a bit, and play his @ss.

We surely need to keep our guards up.

Great post!
i've seen it happen man , there is a saying. ''behind the fall of every great man is a woman''

Do not give your strength to women, Nor your ways to that which destroys kings. proverbs 31:3
 

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This thread is for guys who don't know what to do if they suspect their girl is cheating , has evidence she is cheating , dealing with a chick showing major disrespect or any signs of low interest are noticed.
get out of there as soon as possible , its very likely she saw signs of weakness and lost respect for you and this equals a recipe for disaster , female nature is ruthless and has no heart... do you really want to risk being cucked out ?? ignoring the red flags , thinkin your ''wifey '' is loyal . comin home kissin her all in the mouth after some guys **** and jizz juice all in her mouth? even worse it could be a guy you know , so basically he is puttin his **** and kids juice in YOUR mouth purposefully...basically phaggin you out on the low and you don't even know? the moment a woman shows any signs of disrespect your days are numbered idgaf how many kids you have idgaf how much you love her, quite frankly idont care if it kills you. your balls and your masculinity is sacred and must be protected at all times, if you stay and try to work things out with a liar or a cheater you are headed down a road to ruin, a doorway into hell. you are communicating you are a cuck phagg who is willing to be disrespected , you give her the power , you are her little bich. some men even not only willingly share their wives but its like their brain , their mind has become too weak and submissive they deface their body in acts that involve other men and their wife that are too graphic to mention here . the mind has simply got too weak . nowadays men are weaker than ever , softer than ever , t levels are lowering year after year. BUT men are slowly coming around, even with the whole mgtow , tfl, incel movements rising, perception and awareness is also being raised , we are b1tchin' and crying about female nature but we are slowly coming around, hopefully more men are working out and improving themselves now than ever , since youtube has blown up with various dating coaches and the manosphere preaching self love and growth.


DEDICATE YOUR LIFE TO BECOMING UNSTOPPABLE , UNBREAKABLE IN MIND,BODY AND SOUL AND YOU WILL ONLY ATTRACT WOMEN WHO SEE YOU AS THE DOMINANT , YOU AS THE KING . ACCEPT NOTHING LESS THAN PURE MASTERY OVER YOUR MIND MAKE IT A COMMITMENT TO YOURSELF TO BECOME THE BADDEST MOTHAFUKKA ON THE PLANET OR DIE TRYIN' IT STARTS FROM WITHIN GUYS.
HAVE A POWERFUL DAY AND GOOD LUCK TO ALL..
PRRRRRREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAACH

I'm White Pill, so not trying to be a "bad mofo...or die tryin'" but really hear ya on this!
 

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100%. I went through all of this and you have to cut her out ASAP and you don’t find excuses why you shouldn’t do it doesn’t matter if it’s kids or anything.
If you as a man dump her ass and show strength, she will respect you because that shows that you have self respect and some balls left.
If you kiss her azz because of kids and you wanna make it work etc. and then she dumps you? That’s even worse. By trying so salvage it when you realize shes no longer attracted to you, she may stay for some time but ultimately she will dump you anyway.
 

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Do women who have lost respect and attraction even come back and try to reconcile after a break-up?

My opinion and experience is No, but I'd be interested in other guy's experiences.
 

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Do women who have lost respect and attraction even come back and try to reconcile after a break-up?

My opinion and experience is No, but I'd be interested in other guy's experiences.
only if it’s for their benefit. Doesn’t matter if you’re still weak or turned into an alpha with a lot of options.
If you’re weak and chasing she might come back because the dude she dumped you for had enough of her.
If you really changed and got more attractive she comes back because you are better than her.
In my case she came back when she needed the beta provider. I was basically plan b for a long time until I decided to cut her off. But even if she’d come back out of pure attraction I wouldn’t take her back because she showed her true colours.
Opportunism is always their main motive and it should be men’s too. Fck this idealistic love bs. That only benefits women. Nobod care about us so we should only care about us and our offspring.
 

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Do women who have lost respect and attraction even come back and try to reconcile after a break-up?

My opinion and experience is No, but I'd be interested in other guy's experiences.
My wife came back with my kid 3 weeks after she moved out to her parents, begging me to take her back in.

Attraction was not the issue, because she kept pushing for sex all the time, even just before she moved out.

Respect was a bigger problem though. She started bullying me and my family when our son was born, mid 2017. Bluepilled as i was, i tried to appease her and "work things out". Off course it was never good enough and start of 2018 i took the redpill because i couldnt go on as being her doormat. This was lifechanging, also for her as i drew my line in the sand. At hat point i didnt care anymore what she said or wanted, i just held my ground and wanted her gone. Which happened Jan/2019. I told her she gotta do what she gotta do.
During the first 2 weeks she expected me to cave in and kept trying to boss me around, sign papers to rename my son and that kind of ****. I said i will sign nothing. I told her she can file for divorce and after that is done we can talk about me signing papers. 1 week later she begged to let her come back.

I guess it was the ultimate ****-test.

But it cost her dearly and i made her pay for what she tried to pull off.

To her credit she really gave her best after she was back, but i will never trust her again and if it wasnt for the boy, id have divorced and never looked back.
 

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This thread is for guys who don't know what to do if they suspect their girl is cheating , has evidence she is cheating , dealing with a chick showing major disrespect or any signs of low interest are noticed.
get out of there as soon as possible , its very likely she saw signs of weakness and lost respect for you and this equals a recipe for disaster , female nature is ruthless and has no heart... do you really want to risk being cucked out ?? ignoring the red flags , thinkin your ''wifey '' is loyal . comin home kissin her all in the mouth after some guys **** and jizz juice all in her mouth? even worse it could be a guy you know , so basically he is puttin his **** and kids juice in YOUR mouth purposefully...basically phaggin you out on the low and you don't even know? the moment a woman shows any signs of disrespect your days are numbered idgaf how many kids you have idgaf how much you love her, quite frankly idont care if it kills you. your balls and your masculinity is sacred and must be protected at all times, if you stay and try to work things out with a liar or a cheater you are headed down a road to ruin, a doorway into hell. you are communicating you are a cuck phagg who is willing to be disrespected , you give her the power , you are her little bich. some men even not only willingly share their wives but its like their brain , their mind has become too weak and submissive they deface their body in acts that involve other men and their wife that are too graphic to mention here . the mind has simply got too weak . nowadays men are weaker than ever , softer than ever , t levels are lowering year after year. BUT men are slowly coming around, even with the whole mgtow , tfl, incel movements rising, perception and awareness is also being raised , we are b1tchin' and crying about female nature but we are slowly coming around, hopefully more men are working out and improving themselves now than ever , since youtube has blown up with various dating coaches and the manosphere preaching self love and growth.


DEDICATE YOUR LIFE TO BECOMING UNSTOPPABLE , UNBREAKABLE IN MIND,BODY AND SOUL AND YOU WILL ONLY ATTRACT WOMEN WHO SEE YOU AS THE DOMINANT , YOU AS THE KING . ACCEPT NOTHING LESS THAN PURE MASTERY OVER YOUR MIND MAKE IT A COMMITMENT TO YOURSELF TO BECOME THE BADDEST MOTHAFUKKA ON THE PLANET OR DIE TRYIN' IT STARTS FROM WITHIN GUYS.
HAVE A POWERFUL DAY AND GOOD LUCK TO ALL..
Now I'm really fired up for today! Amen brother!
 

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Do women who have lost respect and attraction even come back and try to reconcile after a break-up?

My opinion and experience is No, but I'd be interested in other guy's experiences.
Not in my experience. This is too many other options for them now. It's like if you leave a job and you have 10 other options it's very unlikely you're going to return to that job and ask for it back
 

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My wife came back with my kid 3 weeks after she moved out to her parents, begging me to take her back in.

Attraction was not the issue, because she kept pushing for sex all the time, even just before she moved out.

Respect was a bigger problem though. She started bullying me and my family when our son was born, mid 2017. Bluepilled as i was, i tried to appease her and "work things out". Off course it was never good enough and start of 2018 i took the redpill because i couldnt go on as being her doormat. This was lifechanging, also for her as i drew my line in the sand. At hat point i didnt care anymore what she said or wanted, i just held my ground and wanted her gone. Which happened Jan/2019. I told her she gotta do what she gotta do.
During the first 2 weeks she expected me to cave in and kept trying to boss me around, sign papers to rename my son and that kind of ****. I said i will sign nothing. I told her she can file for divorce and after that is done we can talk about me signing papers. 1 week later she begged to let her come back.

I guess it was the ultimate ****-test.

But it cost her dearly and i made her pay for what she tried to pull off.

To her credit she really gave her best after she was back, but i will never trust her again and if it wasnt for the boy, id have divorced and never looked back.
Wait a second, you stood your ground and flipped a "bully" situation? Thats not common at all.
 

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Wait a second, you stood your ground and flipped a "bully" situation? Thats not common at all.
From all i heared and read by now, i am surprised too. I guess she knows damn well that she cant do better then me as a 40 y.o. single mom. The fact that she earns more money then me and that she has no legal rights on my house helped in denying her the financial leverage. I made it clear that i dont give a **** if she walks. I expanded my social network and there are female options on my friends lists if demand arises.

I put a lot of factors in place that make it hard for her to act up and i became a bully myself and i am not really nice to her.
If anything she wants even more Sex now since she es back.
For a time i was thinking she just plays along and gets her affirmations and niceties somewhere else aka cheating.
But lets just say there is a device in place that shows me where the car is 24/7, "just in case it gets stolen".

For now it works. I get sex as much as i want and i can see my kid every day, which are the only reason to have a woman around anyway. So as long as she doesnt get to much of a pain in the ass, i am good, for now.
 
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From all i heared and read by now, i am surprised too. I guess she knows damn well that she cant do better then me as a 40 y.o. single mom. The fact that she earns more money then me and that she has no legal rights on my house helped in denying her the financial leverage. I made it clear that i dont give a **** if she walks. I expanded my social network and there are female options on my friends lists if demand arises.

I put a lot of factors in place that make it hard for her to act up and i became a bully myself and i am not really nice to her.
If anything she wants even more Sex now since she es back.
For a time i was thinking she just plays along and gets her affirmations and niceties somewhere else aka cheating.
But lets just say there is a device in place that show me where the car is 24/7, just in case it gets stolen.

For now it works. I get sex as much as i want and i can see my kid every day, which are the only reason to have a woman around anyway. So as long as she doesnt get to much of a pain in the ass, i am good, for now.
Well you see in that situation you can't give an inch they'll quickly overrun you. You are like less than 5% of men in relationships. People get cheated and bullied and hang in there hoping it will change back and it never does. The bully bull**** gets worse over time too. Your forced to be assertive and in control even around your woman. Plus you're ****ing at will, almost nobody has been able to do that.
 

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This thread is for guys who don't know what to do if they suspect their girl is cheating , has evidence she is cheating , dealing with a chick showing major disrespect or any signs of low interest are noticed.
get out of there as soon as possible , its very likely she saw signs of weakness and lost respect for you and this equals a recipe for disaster , female nature is ruthless and has no heart... do you really want to risk being cucked out ?? ignoring the red flags , thinkin your ''wifey '' is loyal . comin home kissin her all in the mouth after some guys **** and jizz juice all in her mouth? even worse it could be a guy you know , so basically he is puttin his **** and kids juice in YOUR mouth purposefully...basically phaggin you out on the low and you don't even know? the moment a woman shows any signs of disrespect your days are numbered idgaf how many kids you have idgaf how much you love her, quite frankly idont care if it kills you. your balls and your masculinity is sacred and must be protected at all times, if you stay and try to work things out with a liar or a cheater you are headed down a road to ruin, a doorway into hell. you are communicating you are a cuck phagg who is willing to be disrespected , you give her the power , you are her little bich. some men even not only willingly share their wives but its like their brain , their mind has become too weak and submissive they deface their body in acts that involve other men and their wife that are too graphic to mention here . the mind has simply got too weak . nowadays men are weaker than ever , softer than ever , t levels are lowering year after year. BUT men are slowly coming around, even with the whole mgtow , tfl, incel movements rising, perception and awareness is also being raised , we are b1tchin' and crying about female nature but we are slowly coming around, hopefully more men are working out and improving themselves now than ever , since youtube has blown up with various dating coaches and the manosphere preaching self love and growth.


DEDICATE YOUR LIFE TO BECOMING UNSTOPPABLE , UNBREAKABLE IN MIND,BODY AND SOUL AND YOU WILL ONLY ATTRACT WOMEN WHO SEE YOU AS THE DOMINANT , YOU AS THE KING . ACCEPT NOTHING LESS THAN PURE MASTERY OVER YOUR MIND MAKE IT A COMMITMENT TO YOURSELF TO BECOME THE BADDEST MOTHAFUKKA ON THE PLANET OR DIE TRYIN' IT STARTS FROM WITHIN GUYS.
HAVE A POWERFUL DAY AND GOOD LUCK TO ALL..
I thought my ex-wife was cheating, so I bugged and GPS'd her car (former military). She wasn't, but the conversations were interesting. I did file for divorce four months later though.
 

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I thought my ex-wife was cheating, so I bugged and GPS'd her car (former military). She wasn't, but the conversations were interesting. I did file for divorce four months later though.
Those conversations escalate and eventually do turn physical. I'm sure a couple of those conversations you monitored did escalate. In hindsight Alot of them were two headed snakes. I'm curious they can probably look at us the same.
 
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Well you see in that situation you can't give an inch they'll quickly overrun you. You are like less than 5% of men in relationships. People get cheated and bullied and hang in there hoping it will change back and it never does. The bully bull**** gets worse over time too. Your forced to be assertive and in control even around your woman. Plus you're ****ing at will, almost nobody has been able to do that.
Yes, i know the beast is still in her, biding its time until she sees herself in a position of power again.
But this point will hardly come back. I work on improving my position every day and the older my boy gets, the even more independent i am going to be from her.

She wasnt able to weaponize sex against me from the start. I made sure she had no leverage on that.
I gave her good and a lot of sex at the beginning and then became indifferent to her providing sex or not. I brought her in the position of chasing me for sex, not the other way around and indirectly let her know i have options for sex if there was a shortage.
 

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the biggest joke nature played on us as men is, we tend to fall in love quicker,forcing us to stick around for offspring, where as women are naturally more selective. they are programmed to move on quickly in case we die in battle or war.
most guys are cool with a chick with a pretty face , a nice ass, good tits a cute face. and good sex.
with women its not that simple , multiple facets of your personality and business must also be in order on top of providing her good hot sex and looking handsome
 
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Those conversations escalate and eventually do turn physical. I'm sure a couple of those conversations you monitored did escalate. In hindsight Alot of them were two headed snakes. I'm curious they can probably look at us the same.
The convos where mostly to her mom, aunt, me and the therapist. Nothing damaging, but very interesting how she explained situations very differently then how they actually happened. I needed to be sure I was making the right decision and over-reacting. I made the right decision.
 
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