Sausage Fests: Why You Can't Avoid 'Em

[st_99]

Logistics are hugely important, so much of pulling requires things aligning in your favor to allow game to work.

I think this is so so so so true. Logistics are very important.

 

[elvis_p]

I ran into a classic sausage fest situation the other night. I went to a big party with probably about 100 people or so. But maybe only 30 girls in attendance, most of whom were attractive.

So, 3 or 4 guys were talking to 1 girl at any given time (the girls were coming and going). It was an ugly situation. Guys were ****blocking each other left and right, guaranteeing failure for everyone. This makes every guy look desperate, and lowers their value, in everyone's eyes.

I tried a little trick where I would befriend the guy instead of tooling him. This shut the girl out of the conversation and she was left scrambling for attention. This would only last for a few minutes as some desperate guy looking for a conversation would introduce themselves to me or the group, and I'd have to start from scratch.

These were very conservative girls to begin with, so the entire process was an exercise in frustration. The party host actually has tried in the past to create even ratios but got ripped a new azzhole by a few chodes who gossiped like crazy and tried to bury him.

So, in order for him to operate in our social circles at all, he has to invite everyone. Dammed if you do, dammed if you don't.

 

[elvis_p]

I went to another party before that, which I probably should not have left.

The girls there were older and not as attractive. There were a couple of attractive gals there, but that was it. One of them introduced herself right away. She approached me and just stared at me. I smiled and she finally said hi.

She was very nervous, her eyes darting about, her feet shuffling back and forth for no apparent reason. I asked her what she liked to do, and she says she enjoyed tennis. I said it was my favorite sport (the truth), and she immediately became very suspicious. It's too bad: girls are so paranoid these days, they can't handle the truth.

My friend shows up rather late, and I open up a girl he likes for him. She's a bit older but still has a bangin' body. A 20 something douche was trying to hit on her later, so she's still got it. I introduce my boy, but as soon as I do so, she counters by introducing HER friend as well, so my friend is occupied.

We head to a huge club right next door, multi story. It's a lot of fun, but I have another party I'm supposed to hit up. I shoulda stayed, as the girl was a guaranteed lay, and my friend was having fun with the second girl as well.

 

[Zodiac]

And this is exactly the reason why it's so easy to meet women in places like that; straight guys that aren't comfortable with themselves dismiss those venues without even trying them out.

Gay guys can tell if a dude is straight, and they generally don't bother you. If they do, you just tell them you're straight, and they'll end up introducing you to their hot girlfriends.

Even if the gay guy doesn't think you are, girls aren't so smart when it comes to that and who's to say the gay guy will help you when he figures it out (If he does at all.)

 

[elvis_p]

On an upbeat note, most guys who are out are generally miserable, desperate, and have no clue how to talk to women, with or without alcohol. They spend the whole night staring enviously at guys with dates, or guys on the dance floor with girls.

I have to admit, guys who are approaching, even if they are doing a piss poor job of it, stand a notch above the dance floor vultures.

 

[DonGorgon]

there are too many men on earth now.

 

[Zodiac]

there are too many men on earth now.

I blame China with their policies on valuing Men more than Women.

 

[Strelok]

there are too many men on earth now.

Stalin killed 20 millions of russians mostly men because he was afraid they were plotting against him.

Those who survived got drunk everyday, became lazy and beated women if pissed off yet they still had women looking for them and try to please them.

You see communism is not bad for everybody just for those killed.

 

[Vice]

Even if the gay guy doesn't think you are, girls aren't so smart when it comes to that and who's to say the gay guy will help you when he figures it out (If he does at all.)

Again, I sense that you're coming from a severe lack of experience. You don't have a crystal ball, you can't predict social interactions before they happen. Especially in those kinds of venues, where the way people think is more open minded.

You're also not giving women enough credit for their natural ability to pick up unconscious body language and behavior cues. Trust me, they can tell if you're straight.

You're in Maine, too. I haven't checked your IP location, but chances are good that you're in Portland.

Even in a place like Maine where there's few hot girls, if you have game, you can EASILY pull. You've just got to go to the right venues. Don't dismiss things until you've tried them.

 

[JCballin88]

Sausage-fests are really the worst, and unfortunately are going to be the norm at almost every party, bar, and club you go to (at least from what I've seen in the US).

I'm not sure if it's a male over-population issue as much as it is a problem of attractiveness. So many girls these days are eating themselves out of contention that they are no longer favorable in sight of any self-respecting guy. All that does is make it astronomically harder to get with a hot girl, and much harder to get with one that is at least semi-cute.

 

[Zodiac]

Again, I sense that you're coming from a severe lack of experience. You don't have a crystal ball, you can't predict social interactions before they happen. Especially in those kinds of venues, where the way people think is more open minded.

You're also not giving women enough credit for their natural ability to pick up unconscious body language and behavior cues. Trust me, they can tell if you're straight.

You're in Maine, too. I haven't checked your IP location, but chances are good that you're in Portland.

Even in a place like Maine where there's few hot girls, if you have game, you can EASILY pull. You've just got to go to the right venues. Don't dismiss things until you've tried them.

I see you do nothing but make baseless assumptions quite like you claim I am doing. I'm all set with getting to know a few gay guys just so I can pull their friends. I live near quite a few colleges so I have my own methods for game.

 

[btownbuck2012]

Horrible advice.

More girls nowadays aren't worried about the club/party scene like the guys are. If you want to find girls you need to cold approach during the day. You can't just rely on parties to find girls. If so then you are in big trouble.

It also depends on what region your in too. Places like Los Angeles and Atlanta are full of girls.

YES.

if guys would take time to cold approach one woman a day, this isn't hard if you have a life, in a couple months MAX you'd be swimming in it.....THE POON that is.

 

[btownbuck2012]

I have to admit, guys who are approaching, even if they are doing a piss poor job of it, stand a notch above the dance floor vultures.

YES!

All it takes is persistence. This is something i still struggle with. There is no right or wrong thing to say. You have to rely on your OWN experience and go with what works for you. The hard part is keeping it consistent. I agree with you, elvis_p. Guys who are actually approaching are WAY ahead of the game, regardless of what they're saying.

 

[Vice]

I see you do nothing but make baseless assumptions quite like you claim I am doing. I'm all set with getting to know a few gay guys just so I can pull their friends. I live near quite a few colleges so I have my own methods for game.

I didn't mention meeting gay guys to go for their female friends. You go for the WOMEN, dude.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

Also theres a lot of places where their are more males then females but how many of these males aren't just standing there looking stupid? You must make sure your game is tight and that is not you. If I was at a party with 100 guys and 20 girls I already know I will pull a girl for the night. I just believe I got it like that.

 

[Vice]

Also theres a lot of places where their are more males then females but how many of these males aren't just standing there looking stupid? You must make sure your game is tight and that is not you. If I was at a party with 100 guys and 20 girls I already know I will pull a girl for the night. I just believe I got it like that.

Yeah dude, I know what you mean by that. The stupid looking dudes are kind of invisible too, just something that you have to push aside to get to the girl you want to talk to.

 

[Borknagar]

haha the amout of dudes doesn't mean a damn thing, like whats already sdaid, most are afc, or lame, or not gonna do a damn thing. I can pull as long as there is a decent amound of women.

 

[irocknike23]

there are too many men on earth now.

no theres not..

i keep preaching this over and over


officially with a head count of almost every single human being on this planet the ratio is

49% men to 51% women


the reason you see more men is because guys go out a lot more than girls do

just go to college. i been in college for 2 years now and almost every class i take there is way more females than males

however at the parties and events its the other way around

 

[aura]

Men feel safer going out, especially at night. Women are very concerned about safety; on many campuses there are security escorts in the evening.

Ironically, violence against women is much more likely to occur amongst friends, family and dates, rather than being committed by complete strangers...

no theres not..

i keep preaching this over and over


officially with a head count of almost every single human being on this planet the ratio is

49% men to 51% women


the reason you see more men is because guys go out a lot more than girls do

just go to college. i been in college for 2 years now and almost every class i take there is way more females than males

however at the parties and events its the other way around

 

[aura]

They're definitely not invisible. They are very easy to spot, since they are staring intently at any couple, or any guys who are there with attractive women.

It's a combination of jealousy, sadness and anger. It's a creepy vibe.

Yeah dude, I know what you mean by that. The stupid looking dudes are kind of invisible too, just something that you have to push aside to get to the girl you want to talk to.