"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Saturday night dates!

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Here is a topic that i've heard discussed before, but i'd like to hear more about it!

Is it a bad idea to set up a first date on a Saturday night? I remember someone saying it's anti-challenge and it lets the girl know you have no other plans for the night!

Also, I may get flammed for this, but is calling in the afternoon to set up a date for that night a good or bad idea? Or should you always set up a date at least a day in advance?

These are parts of my game I need a bit of help on!

Thanks!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Paid Laid & Made

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Okay.

Seriously? I dont even follow this rule ... that much. You know why? Most girls have jobs and you need to plan ahead. I sometimes have to plan a date 1 week ahead of time just to make sure I can hook up with her.

So my suggestion, figure out if 1 day will be enough for her.
 
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Do NOT use weekends for first dates, atleast as a preference don't... Try to get her out on weekdays...
 
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Actually, FOLLOW THE RULE. What's so busy about taking her out for 3-5 hours on a date on a weeknight? Take her to a comedy club, have dinner, etc. After about several dates of doing this.. MOVE her then on weekend dates. It's a "power' issue.
 
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