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Here is a topic that i've heard discussed before, but i'd like to hear more about it!

Is it a bad idea to set up a first date on a Saturday night? I remember someone saying it's anti-challenge and it lets the girl know you have no other plans for the night!

Also, I may get flammed for this, but is calling in the afternoon to set up a date for that night a good or bad idea? Or should you always set up a date at least a day in advance?

These are parts of my game I need a bit of help on!

Thanks!
 

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Okay.

Seriously? I dont even follow this rule ... that much. You know why? Most girls have jobs and you need to plan ahead. I sometimes have to plan a date 1 week ahead of time just to make sure I can hook up with her.

So my suggestion, figure out if 1 day will be enough for her.
 
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Do NOT use weekends for first dates, atleast as a preference don't... Try to get her out on weekdays...
 
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Actually, FOLLOW THE RULE. What's so busy about taking her out for 3-5 hours on a date on a weeknight? Take her to a comedy club, have dinner, etc. After about several dates of doing this.. MOVE her then on weekend dates. It's a "power' issue.
 
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