Eat it when your body is going to burn those calories, never before bed. Before bed, you can take in fats that take longer to process... almonds and fish oil. And of course, the casein protein from cottage cheese.......
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
blueguy said:Eat it when your body is going to burn those calories, never before bed. Before bed, you can take in fats that take longer to process... almonds and fish oil. And of course, the casein protein from cottage cheese.......
how do almonds digest appreciably slower than beef?blueguy said:Eat it when your body is going to burn those calories, never before bed. Before bed, you can take in fats that take longer to process... almonds and fish oil. And of course, the casein protein from cottage cheese.......
Warboss Alex said:how do almonds digest appreciably slower than beef?
Warboss Alex said:Well, now you are getting anal.. 10g of carbs from tomatoes won't kill you. You can have 10-15g of carbs from veggies in a pro/fat meal. Tomatoes are very low GI and have a minimal impact on blood sugar levels (I've never heard of a 'tomato high').
I've seen 85/15 before but not at the grocery stores I go to around here. The local walmart is expanding into a super walmart (and i'm thinking of moving to south carolina... good jobs and beach girlsLoneSilver said:That makes sense.
Are you in the states Mr.Ruckus it looks like you would have a better selection on beef numbers but guess it depends on the area one lives but I could be wronger than the word wrong.
There's still a bunch left over without squeezing it or scraping it off but i haven't been bothering to do anymore than pour it off.I have forgotten about a good ol' meat loaf that is a clever way to bring the fat up on top and all you do is pour it in a bowl or bottle and your done.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
mrRuckus said:I started doing this:
Brown in huge pan of 3-4 lbs of 80/20 beef.
Rinse it in sink but I don't try too hard.
Frozen chopped onions
Frozen chopped green peppers
Mild pepper rings from a jar
Can of diced tomatos
Pepper
Chili powder
Garlic powder or chopped garlic from a little jar in the fridge
Mix together whatever amount i feel like. I don't bother measuring.
Let it sit on low in the slow cooker until i feel like taking it off.
Then when i go to eat it (i'm not a fan of eggs too much), i'll sometimes break up 2 hard boiled eggs into the chili. The pepperyness covers up the taste. This way i can get more eggs in my diet and not quite go through the beef as fast. I end up using the chili as seasoning for the eggs
I'm not a big fan of cutting things up or measuring. By far the longest is cooking the beef but that's only like 5 minutes.
My goal is really to keep the carbs down as much as I can while still having a quick, easy way to cook and shovel down a lot of beef. I like this a lot more and it's not as dry as the meatloaf i was making before.
I'm thinking of mixing in ground turkey and ground pork sometimes too. It just depends on what is on sale when i need to buy meat.