"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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- Thread starter ChrizZ
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
I got a 1240 out of 1600 back in 98/99, btw.
WORKEROUTER
Master Don Juan
practice, practice, practice
You need to be able to think quick, and not get caught into a one-way path of approaching problems. You need to time yourself and focus on your weaknesses. You need to get used to being able to approach problems from many different angles and quickly and decisively choose which one to utilize.
Don't buy into these expensive programs. I know I won't ever send my kid to one. I never went to one, but yet I'm the teacher.
That's because I sat down for several months and dedicated energy to reading, thinking, and practicing, by myself. These programes (kaplan, princeton, etc) just regurgitate the same sh*t a motivated person could pick up with a $10 SAT book from a used book store.
I bought one book-the 10 real SATs-3 months before the test, of my junior year in highschool, when I was 16. I studied as hard as I could for that time (could have done better), and I scored a 1460 in the end. 760 in the math and 700 in the verbal. Could have gotten an 800 in the math section if I focused on NOT BEING CARELESS EVEN FOR ONE OR TWO QUESTIONS!! This is what seperates the perfect scores at this level. Regardless, I never took the test again because I was going to my state's school anyway and was already accepted.
Get the 10 real SATs and sti down every other day for an hour, and devour it. Find your weaknesses and focus on them. Find your strengths and utilize them.
PREREQUISITE: You konw your fundamentals, i.e., the basics of math and english. If you don't, you need to get your sh*t together fast and review them, THEN practice.
Oh and there's an essay. 25 minutes, on the spot topic. This ****ed me over. I suggest you practice.
Get the official book from college board. Do the practice tests and go over the problems you get wrong and the ones you get right. Score well on the practice tests and you'll have no problem with the real thing. Don't procrastinate like I did. I was up into the wee hours the very night before learning math problems I should have learned weeks before. I did horribly on practice tests and did a lot of them. Even with all this still managed above average score. Don't stress it.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.