"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Well, heres the deal
I really like this girl in my classes (shes in most of them) and recently we were forced to sit next together in maths. We've only spent one lesson sat together and we didnt say anything to each other. She is usually quiet anyways and doesnt talk to many boys or girls, just her friends.
Now, we've looked at each other a couple times before, but shes quite unpredictable as I dont know her that well and its hard to tell whether she likes me or was just looking in my direction.
I'm planning on asking her to help me with a maths question as an icebreaker. If she blows me off or its painfully obvious she doesnt like me, ill ask the teacher, but if she does help me where do I go from there?
Any comments would be appreciated
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Invite her to your house to do some homework.

While taking a break, you guys can get to know each other better : )
 
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thanks for the reply, but we live quite far apart, I dont know where she lives and I presume vice versa. not to mention my house is always busy with a smaller brother and sister and all
 
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Definitely talk to her. About anything...go ahead and ask a "math question" if you need to. At least THAT way she knows who you are...then move up from there.
 
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after reading quite the DJ Bible and such, ive realised that conversations (no matter how pointless) are a must
its just continuing the conversation, how do i move on to asking her about herself from a maths question?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I don't think I would ask her for help in math JUST so that I could talk to her unless you actually really DO need help in math. If you just want to talk to her then all you have to do is talk to her about the first thing that comes to your mind.
 
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exactly, just comment and make jokes about goofy things people say or do in class. anything will work.

it will be a little awkward to start, just because its been so long and you haven't said anything. but just go for it and you'll be fine

DJing is 10% knowledge, 15% creativity and 75% grabbing-your-balls-and-taking-charge
 
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Ask her to help you out on a problem. If your house in a problem, go to the library. I would expect a "No." if you ask to go to her house though, since she doesn't really seem like the type...yet ;)
 
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