"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sarging: Warm up somewhere first

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A little tip that has helped me:

If you plan to hit multiple places when out in the field, go somewhere lame first. For me, I'm a little uncomfortable at first and I need to get used to being out, so it's a waste to go to the prime locations first.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Nice Guy is Gone

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With the exception of liquor, this is a good tip. Also, if you say hi to everyone you run into at a boring place, it will get you comofortable enough to open up to anyone you want to.
 

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there are no lame places. there are lame people only. no offense.
 

FRëSHURE

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Originally posted by [o_0]
there are no lame places. there are lame people only. no offense.
what about a those shops which sell those little figures that you paint, like dwarfs and dragons and what not.

those places are lame, more so when looked at in the context of sarging.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Q-Pid

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Originally posted by FRëSHURE
what about a those shops which sell those little figures that you paint, like dwarfs and dragons and what not.

those places are lame, more so when looked at in the context of sarging.
Why on earth would you go to a games workshop to sarge?

Dear God!
 

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Alcohol doesn't help me approach, but it will help me feel comfortable during a conversation. Even while drunk I'm too self-consious to approach.
 

Boner da Stoner

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sam malone: too true, I've been in such bad moods that I spent 200 bucks without spending a dime on a dame, a dame, or even a tip jar.... I got smashed and still couldn't get the nerve to sarge. Got good done and raped by falling onto the right lap though;)

lame places? those are where the fun girls go to find the 'good guys' you gotta show them that when they meet a true social genius they don't give a **** where you pick em up. my fave is in the library stacks;)

I haven't travelled out of this stink hole in 3 years, next time I go down i'm going to sarge the stupidest places and use the lamest lines just to prove it's the method and the meaning, not the words and the games you play:)

HAHAHA little miniatures shop, priceless... :crackup: I can see the old ladies blushing now
 

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Originally posted by FRëSHURE
what about a those shops which sell those little figures that you paint, like dwarfs and dragons and what not.

those places are lame, more so when looked at in the context of sarging.
Actually you'd be surprised. A lot of hot women occasionally go to those antique shops, especially if they've got some cool auctions going. I did a bit of work for this antique charity auction place and got more numbers than the mall.
 

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you can get chick anywhere, thats why i say there are no lame places
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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