"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sarging: Warm up somewhere first

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A little tip that has helped me:

If you plan to hit multiple places when out in the field, go somewhere lame first. For me, I'm a little uncomfortable at first and I need to get used to being out, so it's a waste to go to the prime locations first.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Nice Guy is Gone

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With the exception of liquor, this is a good tip. Also, if you say hi to everyone you run into at a boring place, it will get you comofortable enough to open up to anyone you want to.
 

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there are no lame places. there are lame people only. no offense.
 

FRëSHURE

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Originally posted by [o_0]
there are no lame places. there are lame people only. no offense.
what about a those shops which sell those little figures that you paint, like dwarfs and dragons and what not.

those places are lame, more so when looked at in the context of sarging.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Q-Pid

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Originally posted by FRëSHURE
what about a those shops which sell those little figures that you paint, like dwarfs and dragons and what not.

those places are lame, more so when looked at in the context of sarging.
Why on earth would you go to a games workshop to sarge?

Dear God!
 

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Alcohol doesn't help me approach, but it will help me feel comfortable during a conversation. Even while drunk I'm too self-consious to approach.
 

Boner da Stoner

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sam malone: too true, I've been in such bad moods that I spent 200 bucks without spending a dime on a dame, a dame, or even a tip jar.... I got smashed and still couldn't get the nerve to sarge. Got good done and raped by falling onto the right lap though;)

lame places? those are where the fun girls go to find the 'good guys' you gotta show them that when they meet a true social genius they don't give a **** where you pick em up. my fave is in the library stacks;)

I haven't travelled out of this stink hole in 3 years, next time I go down i'm going to sarge the stupidest places and use the lamest lines just to prove it's the method and the meaning, not the words and the games you play:)

HAHAHA little miniatures shop, priceless... :crackup: I can see the old ladies blushing now
 

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Originally posted by FRëSHURE
what about a those shops which sell those little figures that you paint, like dwarfs and dragons and what not.

those places are lame, more so when looked at in the context of sarging.
Actually you'd be surprised. A lot of hot women occasionally go to those antique shops, especially if they've got some cool auctions going. I did a bit of work for this antique charity auction place and got more numbers than the mall.
 

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you can get chick anywhere, thats why i say there are no lame places
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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