Speakeasy.
Dude, please put the thought in your mind that you don't NEED "Wingmen".
And replace the thought that "I have to go Solo." with. "Cool, no one to hold me down! I'm free to go or stay as long as I want and go chat up the hot chicks I like!"
Think of just finding a cool girl to go and chat, hang out with , and build some rapport....build a connection.
Don't think of "Pick up" or "Sarging", man.
They are ultimately limiting. Becasue most guys place too much emphasis on the outcome.
Think about this.
You see a girl who gives you nice EC, and smiles.
You go up to her, dude.
"Hey, how's it going? I saw your warm smile and wanted to come over and say hello. What's your name?"
Do you need a wingamn for that?
No.
IF she's nice, she'll talk to you, bro. She will.
Find out things about her. Find out what she's like first. Then think if you want to work on uppping your attraction levels, and sexuality.
If not, big deal. You chatted up yet another cute chick.
What does that mean?
More confidence.
More experience.
Less anxiety.
Yet another Positive experience, you Suave handsome Devil, you.
Dude, think about getting to know women.
How do they act. What do they say? What are their feelings? Opinions?
You might finid some really cute chick that is really very interesting.
Or maybe soome chick who is fun.
Or whatever, maybe she's just not interested in you ....right now.
Don't worry about it.
You're there to BE SOCIAL.
That's it.
Go hang out in a cool scene, with great music, some Peppermint Schnapps or Curvosier or whatever! And you can go up to any chick who gives you some IOIs. Go have fun, man.
You don't need a wingman, dude. You don't.
There's nothing wong with being the Lone Wolf.
In fact, many chicks find it sexy.
They actually feel your Confidence for going out alone.
It speaks volumes. In my experience, I have NEVER had a girl think it's "creepy". Or "slimy". I just don't give off those vibes. IN fact, I actually pick up the vibes that going up to the woman and starting convo is expected of me ("Ok, here he comes."). I think women would find me sitting by myself and NOT approaching to be "creepy." Not if I came alone.
(They ask me "Did you come alone?" plenty of times. Sometimes I'll say "Yes." sometimes I'll tell them that I was waititng for a buddy to meet me here but he flaked or something. It doesn't really matter. I don''t care what she thinka of that, really.)
(Women want to be seduced. Woman want to feel sexual passion. But you DON"T know the psychological makeup of the chick your chatting. So you have to build trust, comfort, and rapport first. ALWAYS.)
Don't give off "I'm on the prowl." vibes necessarily. No "Desperation" vibes ever. Never look, or act, or feel desperate. There's no good reason for this.
But if you're a sexual being, not afraid of your Testosterone, and loves women.....go and do it.
Women are dying for us to approach.
Just think of having great interactions with women.
If you find a chick that YOU really like, and you KNOW that she's interested in you. Then escalate. If not, keep it platonic and excuse yourself when you feel like it. You don''t owe her anything. DO you?
So move on and find somoe other chick.
Anyway, none of this shoudl be scary.
Every guy needs to reprogram himself if he thinks approaching women and talking to them, and then if YOU are interested, escalate and get a number.
And never take any "rejection" as a "LOSS", or take it personally.
In fact, 9 times out of 10, that chick will still think you're cute ro whatever, but she just wasn't feeling it that night with you.
Big deal.
Don't be afraid, or get panicky, or start to worry about the "outcomes".
Fvck that sh*t.
Go out and have some fun like men do.
And this is what we do.
There's nothing "creepy" about it at all.
Good luck.
