"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sarging in Australia

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wolf116 said:
The best way to meet women in Australia is to travel around the whole thing.

Australia has less of a dating culture then America.
I just want to sarge and have fun during the day, as well as at night.

I think it is good that girls are not used to AFCs sucking up to them. It'll be easier to stand out and be interesting.

I think our culture has become pretty global.. i mean around the world there are hot/cute chicks wanting to meet cool guys. There is night scene in almost all cities around the world. I have also seen many GOOD pick up videos from Alex Coulson and socialengineer on youtube...

Since population is so low, I might need to roam around Melbourne-Sydney-GoldCoast, maybe even new zealand.. but I think Australian girls are hotties.. I have a pretty positive feeling about setting up base in Melbourne.;)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You will love Melbourne, Gold Coast or Brisbane.

You misunderstood me when I said we don't have as much of a dating culture. You will meet women just as easily, ONS's may even be easier.
 

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wolf116 said:
You will love Melbourne, Gold Coast or Brisbane.

You misunderstood me when I said we don't have as much of a dating culture. You will meet women just as easily, ONS's may even be easier.
Cool. In case I DO come, it'll be Jan of 2009, so wait for me. We'll sarge the fu1k out of Australia and New Zealand. :cool: :rockon:
 

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LOL at this thread. So many people talking out their arses.

It's absolutely no different from any other Western English speaking country.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Bloke said:
LOL at this thread. So many people talking out their arses.

It's absolutely no different from any other Western English speaking country.
Excpet we don't really like the yanks with their accents LOL joking :), but nah just be prepared to handle alot of anti american / bush comments, esp when dealing with bit(hy chicks :)
 

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seasonedplayer said:
But depends where you go - if you want to get laid, don't go to Sydney
My cousin is in Sydney, and he seems to be having a good time with the girls. But since a lot of guys here have advised against Sydney so I'll keep that in mind.

But Alex Coulson, the Australian PUA, is centered in Sydney, and you yourself are from Sydney, so I don't believe it can be that bad. I mean every girl in Sydney WILL eventually have a bf, so you just have to tighten your game a little.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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