"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sarging in a Foreign Country

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I'll be moving to Okinawa Japan soon and it struck me.. How do I sarge in a country that is not my own? I cant even speak the language. Has anyone ever done this? Completely with body language or maybe a translater? Any advice?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ken785

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why are you moving there? i would love to move to JP, what nationality are you? i heard most women over there arent attracted to white men or foreign men for that matter because of different cultural views i guess, mostly...some other people on here might tell you otherwise though...
 

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I'm military, and of course my luck getting sent there. Im caucasion ..Im kind of excited cause of the atmosphere and the land, but nervouse cause of the women.
 

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You sure about that? Seems like every Asian woman I see is with a white man. But yeah, kinda hard to sarge I imagine if you can't speak the language.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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USMC, Ya Eveyone I talk to says they love Americans of any color, just the nationality gets u laid, but Im not after the sluts.. I like to game the girls that are hard to get
 

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When I was in Japan women threw themselves at me. They love English speaking foreigners.
 
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